- Feb 14, 2015
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I'm pleased that it's not considered socially mandatory anymore. I really am. People should absolutely be able to fuck who they like. That said, I've found public opinion seems not just to have loosened on this issue but to have turned a 180 on it. You can't even acknowledge that you're happy to admit you're a virgin without people thinking that you need mental help, or admit that you're waiting until after marriage without being considered some kind of reject. I don't really understand this. Exactly what's so wrong with saving that particular experience to share with someone special to you? I can understand why other people might not want to wait, but this way makes sense too to me. You're not risking any kind of diseases. You're not risking knocking a girl up and all of the unpleasantness that comes from not being ready. My dad did that. He hooked up with a crazy bitch because she threw herself at him essentially out of jealousy. He paid for it for the next twenty years. You're not under any expectation if you just date other people who've made the same choice. Maybe it's just because I have the misfortune to be stationed in California, but I really don't get the hostility people show when I'm open about this.