What blew my mind, and this is key, is that when you talk yourself into something, that means you really do believe it. You're not lying, you're not being insincere, you really believe it.
That's a fine insight, and there are more examples for it than one could hope for. Just look what we got here:
Each end is laying out a long list of examples of violence, rhetoric and incitement by the other end.
Guess what? They're both right. Facts are facts.
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When the hate is flowing from both ends like water from a fire hose, does it really matter which end is "worse"?
The author is obviously scrambling to place blame for the exact same malfeasance on both sides, while in the end allowing for one side to be "worse", while doubting that "worse" doesn't matter. For, apparently, "worse" doesn't matter in case "hate is flowing from both ends like water from a fire hose".
But then we know, "worse" does matter a good deal, because it would require all who are not blinkered by ideology to adjust their judgment in proportion to what the difference is.
That out of the way, let's just briefly point out that, as far as I've seen, we have on one side peddling a list of horrors, as peddled by Breitbart, a rightarded hate site and all-out crime against the truth, if there ever was one. It contains some minor instances of violence, but mostly indications that democracy is as messy and mettlesome as one should expect, amounting to the equivalent of a broken fingernail, that is to say, trumped up nonsense. The other side has just about every statistic about hate crimes as put together during the last decade by folks who know whereof they speak, including deadly violence originating by and large from the right, which is currently so rampant, law enforcement are
at pains to control it.
Finally, let's look at one last item, the aforementioned hate, which is allegedly "flowing from both ends like water from a fire hose". Is that in fact so? Obviously, we have the most shameless propaganda fanning the flames of hatred against the press, against Mexicans, Hondurans, the caravan, alleged to contain dozens of ISIS fighters, and decried as an invasion force, and three incidents of right-wing violence during the last week alone. There is quite a bit of hate in there, sure. On the other side, I find desperation over the separation of kids from their families, contempt for all-out mendacity, concern over the rule of law, ridicule for the third-grader vocabulary and name-calling, revulsion from the ugliness of the spectacle, and, at most, very few voices calling for citizens to protect what is right and decent and to get into the faces of important U.S. officials to demand they reconsider their inhumane policies. That is to say, one side thrives on hate, and fanning the flames of hatred, of the Other, trying to depict a few thousand destitute folks trying to flee violence and unbearable living conditions in their home country. On the other hand, I see a very justifiable concern, passionate even, arising from that kind of electioneering, and the obvious invitation to violence it represents, and what may come of it. Perhaps most importantly, I see one side directing their hatred toward those way down on the social ladder, the other side raising their passionate objections toward those high, and highest, up the social scale. Which targets, would one think, are more likely to become the victims of violence?
I find, the sides differ considerably, and while I fear one of these confrontations Waters called for might get out of hand, you sure would agree the other side is worse, way worse, and if our judgment be just, we must account for that.