No I'm not required to but they would have to buy it themselves ie. mom and dad. Lol
It's just frustrating. I've had to jump through hoops to get bills paid for my other son who is away at college. I love when they say they have to get his "ok" over the phone - like they really know who they are talking to. Note to self : practice man voice.
Is there any reason why your sons cannot obtain the billing information and give it to you? When mine were in college, that is what I had my kids do. If I was going to pay the bill, the
least they could do was get me the information. After all, college IS about their learning to become independent.
As to insurance, I don't know what you pay, but there are some policies available through the schools that are VERY reasonable. When I got my masters, I had to quit full time work and I got a family policy for a very reasonable sum. When I was teaching, insurance where I taught was not a requirement. Sadly, the school did not distribute any policy information. But while I was there I just went to the registrar's office and got the information for my students. They were SO glad to have major medical for themselves and their children.
My childrens' schools did not 'nickel and dime' me to death. I paid tuition, room and board, and books. They had to work to pay everything else.