Sorry, I have a hard time considering a safety net for our most vulnerable citizens "big government". I believe as a first world, enlightened country (and also the wealthiest country) there should be no question that we have something to turn to for folks who fall on hard times - especially in this monopolistic and corrupt capitalist system we have in place. In my eyes, "big government" is really a smokescreen for "big corporate", pulling government strings to benefit their profits like a puppet. Just look at veggie libel laws, for instance. If those aren't an affront to the first amendment, I don't know what is. Funny how you never hear anyone screaming about them, huh. And that the meat industry is not required to tell you where they sold their tainted meat - after not even being required to RECALL tainted meat - there's no way to describe it but criminal... makes my blood boil to see so obviously what these corporations have paid to legislators who then have turned into law. We MUST get lobbyist money out of our legislative and electoral systems if this country is to have a chance.
Personally, I dont see a problem with social safety nets, as long as theyre well designed, and are not encouraging perverse incentives that actually work to harm society (which can happen very easily). Sometimes good intentions (like certain forms welfare) actually can do more harm than good; sometimes we create a program that seems pretty straightforward, but in actual practice it produces some very nasty and counterproductive side effects.
Although slightly unrelated, heres a real life example. I read once that a few years back there was a problem on airplanes with parents holding their infant children on their lap. The problem was that If heavy turbulence hit, a baby once in a while would slip out of the hands and collide with the ceiling (and on a few occasions cause serious injury and death). To remedy the government made it mandatory that children needed to purchase/sit in their own seat. What happened? Travel became more expensive, parents opted to take cars vs. airplanes, and a greater number of babies ended up getting injured and dying anyways because driving is much more dangers per mile than flying.
How does this apply to welfare? Well, I'm not totally sure, but what I
think I'm trying to say is that are you absolutely sure the safety nets you set up are resulting in a net benefit for society?