Bonzi
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- May 17, 2015
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How does a spouse trap you? Helping to ride out a problem may not really be helping but enabling.Maybe some people just don't know that it takes to make their lives happy.
They could also be in a situation where they are trapped (jail, a violent spouse etc.)
Unfortunately, I think many people do it impulsively, because no one is there to help or ride it out with them.
Like "if you leave me I'll kill you" or "if you leave me I'll kill your family".....