Instead of looking at the big picture (winning the game), go smaller, much smaller into all the personal aspects of the game. For example, while my profession is not winning a football game, I seek God's help in presenting middle school lessons. It's not a winning lesson (yay!), it is working with students and colleagues, getting through the minor frustrations, barriers students throw up, and making sure there is time to encourage and go back and help students who are struggling. Here is what the day/class/game has put before me: How can I give it my best? For a football player, that might be taking the time to encourage a teammate, or not reacting to the needling of an opponent. It's not, Did I come out with a winning game; it's, Did I come out a better person. What did I give? Was it my all?