What if your kid came out as gay?

[miketx]

From your own personal perspective..what would you do?

Dear Abby blah blah blah.

What!?? You're thread title is about comming out gay but the scenario that you present is about gender dysphoria? That kind of tell me that you are kind of out to lunch on the whole topic of human sexuality, and gender identity. Get it together. What do you want to discuss?

Yep. Mother's out to lunch and fondling her own ***** over it

Do you have anything appropriate and helpful to contribute.? Stupid question. You never do

How come you only show up ****** threads? Are you a peter puffer?

You are now forever ignored. I have no time for your stupidity

I'm heart broken. Not even a reach around?

 

[Ringtone]

And again..just curious.

Scenario: Your 14 year old son tells you he is in the wrong body and wants to change his gender. Completely. Including hormones, removal of his boy parts (being polite here), and wants to go shopping for dresses, you buy him makeup, etc.

Do you support his decision? What if he were 10? Or 8? Even 17?

From your own personal perspective..what would you do?

That's the wrong question to ask on a board populated by an inordinate number of brainwashed imbeciles and degenerates.

 

[Devils_Advocate]

TheProgressivePatriot
Well, for starters...if a kid that is male wants to be female so he can date males..that means he is gay, right?

Even LGBTs are confused about that. Obviously you are too.

Right! You are not that out of it afterall. There are trans people whp are gay and those who are not in that they are attracted to the gender opposite of their own gender identity. It is complicatd but not so confusing if you try to understand. But gay and trans are not the same thing

You are correct trans and gay can be two different things and a trans can be attracted to the opposite sex of their biological sex where as gays are only attracted to their same sex and have experimented with the opposite to find out if they were truly gay…

 

[JOSweetHeart]

Try to determine what is really wrong.

In a very sad video a girl came out as trans to whoops, cheers and screams of I love you. This poor child was about 12, fat, homely, with an unattractive haircut and dressed like a fat adult instead of a 12 year old in clothes that didn't fit. Clearly this child had suffered immensely. She must have been teased and bullied beyond measure. When she said "I'm a guy" it all changed. People weren't teasing. They were screaming that she was loved, cared about. How she really felt was immaterial. She now had a safe space.

If my 14 year old son came out as gay or trans I would first try to find out what was really wrong.

This story reminds me of one of my most favorite films. The main character gets a visit from himself at age eight. The boy learns that his job once he has grown up is an image consultant. The boy of course didn't know what that was at first. Later on he says to his adult self, "You help people lie about who they really are so that they can pretend to be someone else." That exchange is actually my most favorite part of the film. The Kid is the name of it and Bruce Willis plays the lead character.

God bless you and him and his young co-star always!!!

Holly

P.S. The point that I am trying to make in case you are wondering is this. To me, anyone who encourages a person to change may as well be what Bruce's character is. If I have a point there, my question then would be this one. If those who do the cheerleading were to want money for their decision to be a cheerleader and not only that but would want that money to come from the person who wants to change, would the person who wants to change then not be so quick to make what very well could be an unnecessary change?

 

[Gracie]

JOSweetHeart

 

[Gracie]

She didn't say anything of the sort

She's sneaking into the kids bedroom at night with an agenda to make him extra male muscular with lots of body hair bald on the top of his head.

Family attack reported.

I did too. Getting out of hand. OPINION thread, with SAMPLE given. Not open for family LYING attacks against posters real families.

 

[miketx]

TheProgressivePatriot
Well, for starters...if a kid that is male wants to be female so he can date males..that means he is gay, right?

Even LGBTs are confused about that. Obviously you are too.

Right! You are not that out of it afterall. There are trans people whp are gay and those who are not in that they are attracted to the gender opposite of their own gender identity. It is complicatd but not so confusing if you try to understand. But gay and trans are not the same thing

You are correct trans and gay can be two different things and a trans can be attracted to the opposite sex of their biological sex where as gays are only attracted to their same sex and have experimented with the opposite to find out if they were truly gay…

So then a gay trans is not really gay?

 

[Devils_Advocate]

TheProgressivePatriot
Well, for starters...if a kid that is male wants to be female so he can date males..that means he is gay, right?

Even LGBTs are confused about that. Obviously you are too.

Right! You are not that out of it afterall. There are trans people whp are gay and those who are not in that they are attracted to the gender opposite of their own gender identity. It is complicatd but not so confusing if you try to understand. But gay and trans are not the same thing

You are correct trans and gay can be two different things and a trans can be attracted to the opposite sex of their biological sex where as gays are only attracted to their same sex and have experimented with the opposite to find out if they were truly gay…

So then a gay trans is not really gay?

There are gay trans who have sex with the same sex of their biological sex and there are Trans that have sex with the opposite sex of their biological sex.

It is a lot more complicated than many like to know and have been living in this society for decades I have learned a lot and many things what you think are many times wrong…

 

[Gracie]

Mad_Jack_Flint

If it's confusing to hetersexuals, I can imagine what it does to the mindset of those "in the wrong body" or "attracted to the same sex" or "not attracted to the same sex" but think they will be happy with a different body.

Two very good friends of mine are gay. A couple. Both drag queens. When I asked them why they "tucked" instead of removing the offending organ, they both gasped and said HAYELL NO! I said it was confusing for me to understand and they said "don't feel lonely, hon". lol

 

[whitehall]

You would have recognized the condition long before he turned 14 and maybe had time and therapy to handle it.

 

[Devils_Advocate]

Mad_Jack_Flint

If it's confusing to hetersexuals, I can imagine what it does to the mindset of those "in the wrong body" or "attracted to the same sex" or "not attracted to the same sex" but think they will be happy with a different body.

Two very good friends of mine are gay. A couple. Both drag queens. When I asked them why they "tucked" instead of removing the offending organ, they both gasped and said HAYELL NO! I said it was confusing for me to understand and they said "don't feel lonely, hon". lol

Those that tuck are gay men who enjoy dressing as a woman, and not as uncommon that many think.

I mean I have seen many drag queens that are married and with kids, so the lifestyle is just something coming to light…

 

[rightwinger]

Straight to the shrink and then the church...and out of public school.....immediately....

Jesus will cure him of the ghey

Removing him from public school and away from perverted freak teachers will help a great deal....and yes prayer....

Sure cure

Works all the time

 

[rightwinger]

Take the kid out and get him laid a few times.Then **** him in the ass and see what he likes best.

Did it work for you?

 

[rightwinger]

Mad_Jack_Flint

If it's confusing to hetersexuals, I can imagine what it does to the mindset of those "in the wrong body" or "attracted to the same sex" or "not attracted to the same sex" but think they will be happy with a different body.

Two very good friends of mine are gay. A couple. Both drag queens. When I asked them why they "tucked" instead of removing the offending organ, they both gasped and said HAYELL NO! I said it was confusing for me to understand and they said "don't feel lonely, hon". lol

Those that tuck are gay men who enjoy dressing as a woman, and not as uncommon that many think.

I mean I have seen many drag queens that are married and with kids, so the lifestyle is just something coming to light…

I think it has more to do with sexual gratification.
Once you chop it off, you have limited arousal, no matter how skilled the surgeon

 

[Devils_Advocate]

Mad_Jack_Flint

If it's confusing to hetersexuals, I can imagine what it does to the mindset of those "in the wrong body" or "attracted to the same sex" or "not attracted to the same sex" but think they will be happy with a different body.

Two very good friends of mine are gay. A couple. Both drag queens. When I asked them why they "tucked" instead of removing the offending organ, they both gasped and said HAYELL NO! I said it was confusing for me to understand and they said "don't feel lonely, hon". lol

Those that tuck are gay men who enjoy dressing as a woman, and not as uncommon that many think.

I mean I have seen many drag queens that are married and with kids, so the lifestyle is just something coming to light…

I think it has more to do with sexual gratification.
Once you chop it off, you have limited arousal, no matter how skilled the surgeon

Possible…

 

[Luddly Neddite]

My son doesn't appear to "like" girls he is 37, he has never said so but he has some pretty weird stuff on his computer and has never had a girlfriend, I wish I had grandkids from him but other then that disappointment it really doesn't matter to me.

And he still might give your those grand kids.

 

[Hellokitty]

It's unbelievable so many people in the medical and mental health field support telling people their bodies are broken. The statistics on people having extreme cosmetic surgery are the majority are still unhappy with the results.

 

[Rambunctious]

Straight to the shrink and then the church...and out of public school.....immediately....

Jesus will cure him of the ghey

Removing him from public school and away from perverted freak teachers will help a great deal....and yes prayer....

Sure cure

Works all the time

More and more are giving it a try everyday....

 

[BrokeLoser]

And again..just curious.

Scenario: Your 14 year old son tells you he is in the wrong body and wants to change his gender. Completely. Including hormones, removal of his boy parts (being polite here), and wants to go shopping for dresses, you buy him makeup, etc.

Do you support his decision? What if he were 10? Or 8? Even 17?

From your own personal perspective..what would you do?

I'd tell him to fight his urge and twisted desires....I'd tell him to work on self control, I'd tell him how important it is that he not become a totally fucked in the head piece of degenerate shit...I'd tell him there are pedophiles all around us whom want to **** kids and jack-off to child porn but don't because they have self control.
surada rightwinger TheProgressivePatriot

 

[MarathonMike]

Sexual preference IMO is part of individual freedom that is a right for any ADULT. Anyone under 18 is certainly not mature enough to make such a life altering decision. 14, 10 or 8 is definitely too young.