My son doesn't appear to "like" girls he is 37, he has never said so but he has some pretty weird stuff on his computer and has never had a girlfriend, I wish I had grandkids from him but other then that disappointment it really doesn't matter to me.
Yeah, he is keepin it on the DL. That's the way gay folks did it, back in the day. Like respectful adults. Sex, and sexual tastes are a PRIVATE matter.
Yeah but, this is now. Why couldn't your child bring home the person he loves for dinner and be part of a family?
I know you don't want stuff thrown in your face like a double dog dare .. but not all gay people are like that.
In 2000 my son's wifes older brother came out in a large Catholic family and I was part of that family.
He was a very successful, well educated hedge fund manager... and it was awkward for these devout Catholic parents.
I kept silent for months until I was asked. All I could say to them was this: He's a good man. I think I would try very hard to accept this relationship.
Its turned out well... and its been 20 years now,