Seeing as how "conservatives" are typically "absolutes"-driven....as-opposed-to thinking for themselves, they've earned the lemming-designation.
OK let's look at absolutism vs. relativism
A. pro-choice abortion rights vs. gun rights
Liberals I know want absolutely NO laws restricting limiting or regulating abortion in any way.
Absolutely not.
Because if you start anything, even asking for sonograms or anesthesia, even recognizing an unborn baby killed in the womb of a murdered mother as a murdered person also, then that "opens the door" for more legislation.
But when people against gun regulations argue for similar reasons,
they are irresponsible and denying responsibility for the abuses of guns.
Do you see that it is mutual, and how both sides see the other?
As an absolutist who won't budge, because it opens the door to the other side taking over?
B. homosexuality and orientation
Liberals I know reject the idea that homosexuality is a choice. I have also never met a person who consciously chose to be gay or transgender etc.
In some cases, it is not natural and can be changed though it takes more than free will.
There are many people who report being healed of abuse where it no longer repeated in patterns of sexual abuse, whether heterosexual OR homosexual relations were abused.
However, in cases of conversion such as these, suddenly the gay community doesn't recognize their experiences as real or valid. So these people "weren't really gay to begin with" There are also still conflicts going on within gay, lesbian, and bisexual groups not treating and including each other equally, though much progress has been made.
So this idea of including all people is relative. It is only if people agree to support people who think as they do. But when a bisexual or former homosexual has a different experience and talks about choosing to act differently, then that doesn't count. So it depends.
Is this what you mean by taking a relative approach?
Not to worry, Conservatives do this also!
Look at the free exercise of religion, and how Muslims were discriminated against.
Christians complain when they are targeted by fear, and then they did it to Muslims.
Not very "absolutist" about freedom of religion, are they?