A couple of times at a restaueant, I have had a waiter that was obviously a homo.
I called the manager over and asked for a different server.
The manager complied and I received a different waiter.
Someday...it may happen, you may find yourself in an accident, or severe sudden illness - and the doctor or ambulance worker will work to save your life.
The nurse tending to you in the hospital, though you may be even unable to talk or move, or urinate without assistance, will be there to provide care for you.
And that person, or persons,
will be gay or lesbian.
Godspeed to you on your journey to understanding the ones you detest so much, have much more humanity and love in their heart than you could ever imagine, and will be there for you, even as you banish them to your hell.