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To elaborate just a little bit, these kinds of people ALWAYS play the victim no matter what happens and if it wasn't for the fact that they are extensive family members I would have dumped them a long time ago.
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I think you need to put some distance btwn u and these people. I don't know if that is excellent advise? I don't kno them... but that is what I would do. I've done it w/ people in family and elsewise, and some of them get very TICKED off, even though they act like they don't want me for a pal anyway!! It's really bizarre, that. I mean, if you don't like someone, why would you be ticked when they take off?This would be a whole lot easier if one of them wasn't being so difficult and cussed me out earlier today.
Vengeance is mine said the Lord--Those who steal vengeance for pride and self follow the opposite path of the Lord= antichrist.That's what I was currently working on but feeling really rotten about it though.
You don't have to forgive you just have to let that person go and stop living in the pastTo forgive another person does not benefit that person, it only benefits you. I have seen people hold onto their hatred and it eats them up inside. It is kind of like God damming someone. It does not God dam them but may dam you.
Obviously as a Christian I don't want to hate anybody but I do right now to a very particular person who stabbed me in the back. I just can't stop hating them and being angry with them and I just can't forgive them because I don't know how since this person REALLY stabbed me in the back hard. What do I do to stop? A part of me still doesn't want to stop and or listen though because I feel that they deserve it and at least God can't fault me for honesty. I wish I didn't feel like that, but I do. I'm in a complete and utter RAGE right now.
Living well is the best revenge. Be happy. Forget their name.