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A âborn and raised Republican,â Perry always supported abortion rights in theoryâshe just never expected to need (or want) an abortion. âYou can be a Republican Christian and still be pro-choice, because itâs compassion and empathy and giving the benefit of the doubt to the human that is going through this, that they have prayed and done the best thing that they knew to do for their child or for themselves,â Perry told Jezebel.
Unexpectedly, the abortion issue became urgently personal for Perry. She described in an interview with me her harrowing journey to terminate her pregnancy in a state that bans abortion after receiving a devastating diagnosis. She was forced carry her unviable fetus, a girl they named Ivy Grace, for 49 days while waiting for an abortion. It didnât have to be like this. âThis has to stay between a patient and the doctor and her relationship with whateverâif sheâs religious or not religiousâthis is between her and what she believes in,â Perry said.
A month after the initial anatomy scan, at 22 weeks, a second echocardiogram (a kind of heart scan) confirmed the severity of HLHS and added aortic atresia to the growing list of diagnoses. The couple, who both grew up ardently Christian, had both agreed it was best to terminate. But at least 43 abortion clinics have closed since Roe was overturned. Between the dwindling number of clinics and her increasing gestation date, the number of places legally allowed to take Perryâs case was shrinking by the week. At the very end of August an appointment opens upâtwo weeks from then. âI have to live and work for two more weeks because of the backlog. [Weâre] being forced to wait because [weâre] having to leave the state that wonât protect them to go to one that will,â she said.
Perry had to send a mass text to clients explaining that a fetal diagnosis meant she didnât want to talk about her pregnancy or for them to comment on it. Sheâs a small business owner; if she doesnât work, she doesnât make money. âTo be forced to carry to full term, knowing your child isnât going to make it, is so cruel. I know what that was like, because I did it for two weeks, and I couldnât imagine doing it for another few months,â she said.
Perry would have to continue to carry a wanted pregnancy that had little to no chance of thriving outside her body. It had already been nearly five weeks since she learned about the HLHS diagnosis. The overall cost would be $10,000 to $12,000 out of pocket, and the clinic directed them to abortion funds and practical support resources to help. âI swear theyâre angels on earth. I felt guilty even taking funding,â she told me. âWe make a good living together, but we had just bought our house, you know, thinking weâre bringing a baby home. The timing of it was horrible. I kept telling them, âI promise you, weâre going to give you all this money back one day because I want other people to be helped.ââ
The procedure went smoothly. âI knew I was just giving my daughter the gift of peace and freedom and no pain whatsoever,â she told Jezebel.
That was less than two months ago. Now, Perry sees her harrowing story as a way to make a difference. Despite being a registered Republican, Perry has been working to get Democrat Joe Cunningham, the gubernatorial candidate, elected. Cunningham is challenging Gov. Henry McMastersâthe current Republican governor who is itching to ban same-sex marriage againâwho signed the six-week gestation ban that made it impossible for Perry to receive care in her home state.
Before she would make the multi-state trek to her abortion appointment, Perry wrote letters to âevery statehouse representativeâ asking them to âunderstand the nuance and just give women the choice.â And she started the Ivy Grace Project to bring awareness to fetal anomaly diagnoses within abortion care. Talking about Ivyâs diagnosis âis giving her death meaning,â Perry said. âThis is helping other women not feeling alienated and alone that they made the best decision for themselves and their children.â
(full article online)
jezebel.com
Unexpectedly, the abortion issue became urgently personal for Perry. She described in an interview with me her harrowing journey to terminate her pregnancy in a state that bans abortion after receiving a devastating diagnosis. She was forced carry her unviable fetus, a girl they named Ivy Grace, for 49 days while waiting for an abortion. It didnât have to be like this. âThis has to stay between a patient and the doctor and her relationship with whateverâif sheâs religious or not religiousâthis is between her and what she believes in,â Perry said.
A month after the initial anatomy scan, at 22 weeks, a second echocardiogram (a kind of heart scan) confirmed the severity of HLHS and added aortic atresia to the growing list of diagnoses. The couple, who both grew up ardently Christian, had both agreed it was best to terminate. But at least 43 abortion clinics have closed since Roe was overturned. Between the dwindling number of clinics and her increasing gestation date, the number of places legally allowed to take Perryâs case was shrinking by the week. At the very end of August an appointment opens upâtwo weeks from then. âI have to live and work for two more weeks because of the backlog. [Weâre] being forced to wait because [weâre] having to leave the state that wonât protect them to go to one that will,â she said.
Perry had to send a mass text to clients explaining that a fetal diagnosis meant she didnât want to talk about her pregnancy or for them to comment on it. Sheâs a small business owner; if she doesnât work, she doesnât make money. âTo be forced to carry to full term, knowing your child isnât going to make it, is so cruel. I know what that was like, because I did it for two weeks, and I couldnât imagine doing it for another few months,â she said.
Perry would have to continue to carry a wanted pregnancy that had little to no chance of thriving outside her body. It had already been nearly five weeks since she learned about the HLHS diagnosis. The overall cost would be $10,000 to $12,000 out of pocket, and the clinic directed them to abortion funds and practical support resources to help. âI swear theyâre angels on earth. I felt guilty even taking funding,â she told me. âWe make a good living together, but we had just bought our house, you know, thinking weâre bringing a baby home. The timing of it was horrible. I kept telling them, âI promise you, weâre going to give you all this money back one day because I want other people to be helped.ââ
The procedure went smoothly. âI knew I was just giving my daughter the gift of peace and freedom and no pain whatsoever,â she told Jezebel.
That was less than two months ago. Now, Perry sees her harrowing story as a way to make a difference. Despite being a registered Republican, Perry has been working to get Democrat Joe Cunningham, the gubernatorial candidate, elected. Cunningham is challenging Gov. Henry McMastersâthe current Republican governor who is itching to ban same-sex marriage againâwho signed the six-week gestation ban that made it impossible for Perry to receive care in her home state.
Before she would make the multi-state trek to her abortion appointment, Perry wrote letters to âevery statehouse representativeâ asking them to âunderstand the nuance and just give women the choice.â And she started the Ivy Grace Project to bring awareness to fetal anomaly diagnoses within abortion care. Talking about Ivyâs diagnosis âis giving her death meaning,â Perry said. âThis is helping other women not feeling alienated and alone that they made the best decision for themselves and their children.â
(full article online)

South Carolina Woman Was Forced to Carry Unviable Fetus for 49 Days
Jill Perry Hartle, a Republican, told Jezebel her story ahead of the midterms in hope of making conservatives understand what's at stake.
