Toomuchtime -
I have no problem with people opposing Right of Return, because that is always going to be a contentious issue.
What I have a problem with is labeling anyone who supports Right of Return as a 'Nazi'.
It's also worth keeping in mind that undreds of thousands of Palestinians already live in Israel-proper as peaceful and productive citizens, and increasing that number by perhaps 5% - 10% is hardly likely to consitute 'suicide'.
The so called right of return is not a contentious issue, it is a settled issue. It may have some propaganda value for some who are anti Israel, but it has no mainstream support, and we all know it will never come to pass. It is used to incite hatred and violence against Israel and if you look at some recent events in Europe, to incite hatred and violence against Jews there.
While characterizing calls for the "right of return" of the so called refugees as similar to the calls of the nazis for the destruction of the Jews is a distraction from the discussion at hand - as our present conversation demonstrates - since it may unfairly include some who are merely ignorant of the facts or foolish and gullible, it is not entirely inappropriate since the "right of return" is a sixty year old argument against the establishment of the Jewish state of Israel and is without question a call for the destruction of that state. Let's look at the facts.
The population of Israel is 7,848,800, including 5,865,300 Jewish Israelis and 1,597,300 Arab Israelis, and there are about 7,000,000 so called refugees. While some Arab Israelis may have grievances against the government of Israel and some Arab Israelis may feel sympathy for the plight of the Palestinian Arabs and even oppose the Israeli government's actions and policies regarding the Palestinian Arabs, the greatest majority of Arab Israelis may be assumed to lead peaceful, productive lives, as you have stated.
This is not the case among the so called refugees, the greatest number of whom, at least 4,797,723, have been raised for generations in cultures, Jordan, Lebanon, Syria, West Bank, Gaza, unalterably opposed to the existence of the state of Israel and unalterably hostile to Jews, and even among those Palestinian Arabs who have moved to the US and Europe, there are strong indications that these same hostile attitudes toward Israel and Jews are strong.
These being the facts, it is at least naive to imagine that a call for the "right of return" is not an argument against the establishment of the state of Israel and a call for its destruction.