You seem to be making a lot of assumptions about what I "want". So far, none of them have been based on my posts, but on some pre-conceived notion you seem to have about me because I happen to support Israel. So let me be clear about what I "want".
Either: 1) Israel annexes the occupied land and works on subduing Muslim violence the way America deals with blacks, which includes giving them equal rights, if not preferences. Or, 2) Give real statehood to the Gaza strip and West Bank, which would give them governments interested and empowered in getting along with Israel (ala Jordan, Egypt, and even Syria). Or, 3) return the occupied land to Jordan, Egypt, and Syria.
With respect to possibility #1: Israel already gives Arab Palestinians equal rights, and actually superior rights in some cases, so your argument is a strawman in assuming that if Israel just "gave Arabs equal rights and subdued the violence" that all will be well. It won't be. There is a fundamental disconnect in the world view of Arab Muslims and Israeli Jews. They are essentially incompatible at this point in time. (Witness the Temple Mount incitement).
#2: You do realize that Israel can't "give" Statehood, right? They have to build it for themselves. Nothing is actually stopping them. (Especially in Gaza which has a set territory). This is actually the solution I argue for most often. Israel withdraws, protects its borders, makes sure it is secure and lets the West Bankians and the Gazans sink or swim. (The problem is that they are likely to sink).
#3: This is my back up plan. If Palestinians can't get their shit together and make a State, then someone is going to have to take them in. It shouldn't be Israel. Its that incompatibility thing again. It should be Jordan and Egypt.