Stop getting flustered. It is simple. Right of return, an end to the occupation and equal rights for everyone.Alright, fine. I will do my own work instead of asking you to do it for me. What do the Israelis need to shift in their thinking?
When the right of return comes up, it brings up some very serious questions and two proverbs.
You can't unbreak eggs once broken. In other words you cant go back and change things back.
What does the right of return mean? That every individual and progeny can return? Where to exactly? Would Israel cease to exist? Would this be a GOOD thing? If Jews once again became a minority how would their rights be protected? Like they were in Europe in the not so distant past? Like they were in Arab countries when they wete expelled?
How would you reassure a Jewish child who's grandparents died in Buchenwald and who's sister died in a bomb attack on a bus that she would ever be safe or secure in this new country?
Keep in mind that as much as you complain about Israel the rest of the Middle East's record on human rights and minority protections is pretty abysmal.
The other proverb is that two wrongs don't make a right. You can not fix the wrongs committed on the Palestinians by perpetrating another great injustice. Or can you?
Millions of diverse ordinary people who have lived Israel for several generations have rights as well.