My family's financial health may have opened some doors, but just like everyone else, I am judged for my accomplishments. Your posting sounds like "Me Too." In fact, in college I wondered if some professors were harder on me because of my socioeconomic level. Anyway you look at it, I had to do the work, and there were students that had father's higher up the food chain than my dad.
I read what you posted. Frankly, I don't believe you. I grew up knowing how the $75,000 a year guy differed from the $150,000 a year guy, and the $300,000 a year guy. You don't have the communications skills of a $150,000 guy. And, your line about knowing a hundred people making $100,000 a year by age 30 on their own. Well........ bull shit.
I remember throwing a party some years ago, my parents were there, and so was the father of a friend, old Arie Walgreen. Arie seemed to want to impress my father and was telling my dad a story about how he had built Walgreens, and that he had flown in for the day on his private jet.
My father listened politely, and when he left he remarked. "Watch out for that guy. No matter what you have, he has just a little bit better. I'd get rid him." These people are easy to spot, and shut down. The first thing any successful self-made, Nouveau Riche does is attempt to acquire culture and class. Do they read the
New York Times or the
Washington Post daily? What books have they read in the last month? What is their favorite PBS show? I find you lacking in these area. It comes right through the computer in your posts. My conclusion is "small timer."
People who have money, I mean real money, are busy enjoying life. Anyone who tells you they 'made it all on their own' is lying. There is no such thing as a self-made person -
everyone gets some help from someone at some time. One looks for genuine humility, that is a strong indicator of success. Their accomplishments speak louder than words. Remember, if you let people know you have money, they will always try to get you to invest in something.