Why not get into your personal opinions? Isn't that the point?
Not necessarily, but since you ask, you will need to understand that my opinion is that of someone who was raised in an era that was intolerant of interracial relationships.
When I was in Jr. High school, back in the 60's we moved to an integrated neighborhood, due to my Father getting a job promotion.
There was a cute little white girl who lived on the same block who liked to listen to records and dance, so one day after school, she came by our house before my parents got in from work, brought some records and some sodas and asked if I wanted to hang out. Not long after, my Father came home, and freaked out.
He sent her home(politely), then he turned on me and asked ....."have you lost your mind?! Your going to get us all killed!!!"
I was about 13 at the time, and that day, he sat and explained his concern to me. And he did it in a way that he put it in historical context.
He told me the story of Emmitt Till, and explained how although I had been to the south with he, my Mother and Grandmother when they marched in the Civil Rights movement, that there was still a long way to go towards change, even in the north. That was my introduction to a very deep fear that my Father had.
Today of course, we live a more liberal society, but I think that still, for some insecure white males,the idea of "their women" dating or marrying black men, is repulsive and quite honestly is a slap in the face to them, because of the psychological aspect of the "sexually depraved beast"
(black male) forcing himself on the "helpless" white female.
I have known white males who have honestly told me that their worst nightmare is the idea of their girlfriend or wife cheating on them with a black male.
On the flipside, some black males see black women who date or marry white males as "trampish gold diggers" who are selling out to their "oppressor" for a few bucks and some trinkets. Still another form of insecurity.
Personally I think that in some cases both scenarios are reality. I have known some black females who have pursued white males actually thinking that they were going to be treated "better" by them, and then get their feelings hurt when they realize that they were just a "novelty"
I have also known some white females who actually believed the "black stud" myth, and then when they found out that the guy they are with is "normal", they wonder what is wrong with him.
Although I have seen first hand all of those extremes, I believe that adults have the right to date or marry who they choose, and whatever they get is left to chance, and is their business and no one else's.
My son has dated the same white female since he was in college, and years ago, prior to him dating her, I also had "the talk" with him and warned him that he could be subject to negative scrutiny by her family, even though he came from a family that was actually better off than hers.
The good thing is that they seem to be decent people, and have been nice to him so far.
He has spoken to me about marrying her, and him being an adult, that would be his decision, however, I did tell him, to ensure that he gets to know more of her friends and as many in her family as he can, as they will all need to be able to get along.
Society has changed, and what was unthinkable years ago is much more acceptable.