Now it's a special treatment? I thought they were 'rights.' Good to know I was able to educate you on the proper use of the term. You're welcome.
And where exactly did this 'special treatment' end, the 12 states which allows recongises gay marriage? That's something, I guess.
Yes, it is special treatment when one group receives cash and prizes and another group is deliberately excluded for no logical reason.
When that special treatment is codified in law, such as DOMA, then it becomes unequal treatment under the law, which is unconstitutional.
I honestly have run out of ideas on how to penetrate your thick skull on this matter.