Why are there so many plants to prevent and induce a miscarriage, from the beginning of time. Why have so many without the knowledge of how to terminate or options available end up feeling hopeless or shamed and resort to suicide?
Life is a test. A test is worthless without the opportunity to get things wrong. It's that simple.
What about what is right for the woman? If given safe options she can have children when she is ready with all the love in her heart.
What about her? She has a choice. She can choose not to have sex if she isn't ready for kids. She can choose to violate basic Morals by terminating a reasonable pregnancy (not rape induced or causing her impending death).
The key word is "CHOICE"......
.....Children are an option in life not a necessity.
Some women have children and get an abortions for many reason. It is not about not wanting children, but there are times when it is just not the right time, or too dangerous to try again
Children are only partially our choice. They are a potential consequence of a choice we make. We don't always get to choose our path in life. We must deal with the cards the Divine deals us, whether we like it or not.
Please don't say abstinence. A healthy life and healthy marriage includes sex.
You want to be celibate, fine, goody for you. Most people could not imagine a normal life without sex. They don't always see children in their life, or don't see them at that particular time
Not necessarily. My wife and I will go long periods of abstinence because the time may not be right for us to have a child. However, any time we do have sex we understand that may mean creating a child. It's that simple.
Some people don't want a house, car or pet at certain times in their lives, all of which they can give or sell, or loose, when circumstances change. A child is a far greater commitment and should be considered when the time is right, not forced on them.
We all make choices, a child is a serious choice and should be carefully considered.
Houses, cars and pets are a totally different situation. I've never met someone who had any of those things given to them as a consequence of a choice they made, without them wanting it.
"she" should just choose to not have sex.........
No "she" does not always have choice, or take protection and it fails....... or things happen after she is pregnant to make having a baby impractical or unsafe.
Why is it always on the "she" and men are ignored or somehow innocent in all this?
What crap!
Why she makes a decisions before the fact or after is less important than her choices for her life in the future.
Rape, date rape, or just a total and utter mistake, why is the blame and shame always on the women? How Victorian. Even the Bible had abortion.
If you personally have a problem with it, don't get one. Unless you seek to understand a woman's reason don't judge her. Even if they don't suit your sensibilities, she might have very rational reasons for her choices, other than casual birth control. There might be women who take it lightly, but even in case of rape, short of total shock panic and revulsion, the women I know who have decided to terminate have at least had mix feeling, but then several would have been killed if it was know they were pregnant.
How many girls/women have committed suicide because they were pregnant? Far too many. If a women has been a drug user the chance of her baby being healthy or adopted is minimal. Too many of them suffer with addiction and go through such pain and often have side effects for life.
What of women who find out the fetus has a birth defect? What if by mistake or just bad choices they face either mental or juridical incarceration?
It might just be a woman can't care for herself let alone a pregnancy?
Maybe it is her career or having to suddenly take on the care of a parent or spouse. Should she let them die and risk her own health and life for a baby that might not even be born?
Don't take options from women for your religious morality.
IF she dies then both lives die. Isn't saving one life moral? Why is the woman's life and health expendable for a possible baby that won't be born for months.
It is still her body that has to carry it. What about her life for those months?
Is it just clinical abortion you object to or any terminations. Natural methods you can't stop or outlaw. Why take away safe options? She could drink herself to death with water if she was desperate enough, would you outlaw that as well? What of carrying bags up stairs or working or just crossing a street?
She might and many do loose a fetus for so many possible reasons. How do you force her to not miscarry that potential life? Are you going to blame her for letting it die?
Women have always found ways to terminate if they have the knowledge and determination. If she terminates without you knowing, how will you prosecute or punish her? You have no right to know if a woman sees a clinic for an abortion or cysts or imbedded menses tissue? Even if she was pregnant, she would still have to terminate before the doctor could do a D&C to correct the problem. No you would have her suffer for nine months or more with the added burden of a fetus growing on top of it.
You don't get access to her medical records and no right to know if she does choose an abortion or just getting an annual pap smear.
What do you think you can do about it?
Take away a clinic and she might go elsewhere, hopefully not to some backroom quack. If she goes out of state or out of the country the result is the same. If she grows her own herbs or plants and makes a cup of tea, it is none of your business. She still is no longer pregnant. What do you indent to do beside rant about right and wrong or worse about some perceptions of hell fire waiting her in the future? You think killing her for not being pregnant is some kind of equal judgement? Incarceration and taxpayer expense? How does that resolve anything?
Should all women who don't have an abortion be given a live on tax payer dollars for the next twenty or so years? Oh, wait we have welfare and it just creates more poverty and crime, and too often the children end up suffering or abused in some way.
Some utopia where children become state property after birth and everyone has a service to the nation? Communists tried that and Plato's was far from desirable even if efficient. How do you plan this future without abortions, terminations, miscarriage or loss of a fetus/baby's life in utero or childbirth?
How many is too many children for a women to have? How many is too many for planet? Human growth is already pressing wildlife to extinction........but then so did caveman and the death of the mammoths and other animals of the time.
You have some way to make a woman want and love the result of the bad night or rape? You want her to give up on her life just to punch out babies to satisfy you?
What of all the children that are out there that need love now?
Why do you care so little about far greater issues and hung up on denying the rights and freedoms of a woman?
It is none of your business what she does or decides, it is her life and her body, be it nine months or longer. You will keep her imprisoned to ensure a safe delivery and then what?
Great, have more education to prevent and even teach abstinence, but only a few will actually care or follow your brainwashing. You will arrange marriage of 13 yr olds and expect them to have a dozen kids? Probably die in childbirth or complications from it, or just plain worn out?
Limit abortions and make it unsafe and you are guilty of killing more lives, by the twos. You going to want that on your personal head? How is that logical?
We don't live in a perfect world with perfect birth control that is safe for all women all the time. We don't have the perfect economy and space and resources for mass population growth. We certainly are not going have mass abstinence and eliminate all rape or other abuse of girls/women. We are not going to have a perfect well paid and supplied child care system free to all. We aren't going to have an adequate supply of well paying jobs for every person where they are happy and productive.
We do our best and keep trying but we also have to care for the mental and physical well being of each unique woman with her individual situation, and sometimes it is just not the right time for her to try and have a baby.
Care for the woman who is alive now and think about her needs before you plan for her dozen children not yet born. Deal with the life in front of you not some egg or embryo that has not yet developed enough to be an individual with it's own throughs and that can act on its own behalf.
You want to somehow transport an embryo into an artificial womb if a women is not willing to carry it and hold it till it is ready to be born, or get men to have womb transplants and carry their own spawn for nine months, great for you. Still can't stop a woman's right to control her own eggs. Artificially create a human egg maybe? That is still sci-fi for the moment. Right now there are women out there than don't want or can't consider carrying a baby to term or just down right afraid, nor can you force her to risk her life for nine months and all that goes with it.
I know, you still want to abolish all types of termination and abortion and enslave a women and use her body against her will...................
"Abortion is not right, it's not moral".......bull
Taking away a womans will and freedom is not right or moral
You do what is right for you and your body, don't tell others what is right for them for nine months or more, not in your neighborhood, across town, across the state, across the country or across the world. You take care of you.
We are all unique "individuals" with our own lives to lives and that might include not having children or opting to adopt instead
when we are ready to be a parent and just so full of love and joy that we want to share it.