I vaguely remember some 80s stand-up sketch. Not that heteros can't also suck.
It depends on what one means by "sucking." I don't want to be allowed access to anyone else's bedroom, nor do I want anyone else but the invited in mine. I think there was an SNL skit, years ago, that had judges in black robes surrounding a bed with a couple in it, pointing out things like "illegal touching."
What happened to people having a civilized sense of privacy in the U.S.? That folks acknowledged that there were places in other folks' lives that they had no right to invade? One thing that I heard early in life is that you don't talk about religion, politics, or sex unless you knew someone very well. Good grief. I've even had people (strangers!) walk up to me and ask me what my religion is or do I believe in such-and-such. We live in a very rude age in which people do not have a sense of boundaries.