Kt Atis Wrote:
With all respect...no, you're off a bit.
What I'm trying to say - and what I think the original poster is trying to say - is that this is an issue in which we might not ever be able to agree completely, or at all...
However....
Is there a way that the two sides can calmly and effectively find a compromise that, while pleasing no one entirely, is the most logical combonation of the opinions held by those two sides?
As I said before - I don't think you will ever convince someone who believes that the morning-after-pill is murder that it should be legal...however you might be able to say "You're right - we can't appease you on this issue...however the morning-after-pill is greatly preferable towards 2nd or 3rd trimester abortions...so can we start a discussion there?"
You might not be able to convince a woman who is terrified to give up the right to decide whether or not she will carry a pregnancy from a broken condom to term altogether....but you might be able to convince her that the morning after pill or an abortion within the first few weeks is greatly preferable to waiting until that fetus has a heartbeat, eyes, a spinal cord, etc. So can we start a discussion there?
I know some might claim that this issue is not as important as others facing our nation - however I disagree. Legalized abortion altered our society hugely and unchangably. Millions of potential people are not living, and the way our society views dating, relationships, sex, marriage, obligation, respect, privacy, womans rights, mens rights, sex education, low-income familes, etc. etc. have all been affected by it. I do think its a relevant discussion to have - and I think that it only becomes irrelevant when we say "my mind is made up and it will not be changed" rather than "I do not think that my mind can be changed...but I will listen to you with an open heart and mind because I want to fully understand your opinion."