If you look over
JoeB131's accounts of how he's been
“f•••ed over”; if you take them as having any basis in truth, then you are led to only two possible conclusions…
Everyone and every organization of any importance, with whom
JoeB131 has had any dealings, has been in a cohesive, organized conspiracy to f••• him over. It has nothing to do with race, sex, sexual identity, or any other alleged oppressed groups; it is specifically against him, personally. Nobody else is being targeted or oppressed the way
JoeB131 is being; even those who are in supposedly oppressed groups.
Where did I say anything even remotely like that? In fact, the guilty parties were only a couple of people. Whoever in higher management told my boss to get rid of anyone who ran up medical bills, and my boss being too much of a spineless coward to stand up to them.
…or…
[*]Through his own bad choices and behavior,
JoeB131 has brought all manner of trouble down on himself, for which he absolutely refuses to acknowledge any responsibility. He blames others for the results of his own bad decisions. At most, anyone else's adverse behavior toward him is a direct result of him having behaved in manners which are offensive and unacceptable to those others. He's f•••ed up his own life. It may even be that some of those that he blames for how he's f•••ed up his life were even trying to help him; but you often cannot help someone who is so solidly committed to a path of self-destruction.
Neither one... You consider a third possibility.
After working for a company for six years, often up to 60 hours a week because they were too cheap to hire enough staff, I encountered a medical condition and the response of this company was to get rid of employees who ran up medical bills.
The hint for me was when this same boss fired two girls after they got pregnant. The joys of At Will Employment. Probably should have gotten away from these folks then. He got rid of another fellow who had gotten a gastric bypass operation.
But for six years, I got glowing reviews and the highest allowable raises. I am still very good friends with several people who work there, including the Office Manager. I've even had to work with my ex-boss as a vendor and supplier. No holding a grudge, if he provided good product and service, never let personal feelings get in the way of business.
Now, I don't put all the blame on the management. The Great Recession breaking out at this time wasn't a help. (Their business was highly tied into housing). At the end of the day, this company had a choice between it's long-term, loyal employees who had been with them for years... and they screwed them. The thing was, I had seniority the day I was let go because in those six years, everyone else got let go or found greener pastures.
But funny thing. I get through it. I got through college after both of my parents died. i got through everything the Army could throw at me. Adversity makes us stronger.
You mistake overcoming adversity with failure, this is kind of your problem.
Then again you think a Kiddy Diddling Con Artist was God's True Prophet, so we can see how you are easily confused.
