by this logic I could say that gay people are free to find an opposite gender partner ... and that is correct
marriage is self-defined as the union of two people of the opposite sex.
Not in 13 Legal Entities in the United States (12 States + DC).
Except of course when you agree with the courts, then it was OK to overturn Civil Marriage bans and you think the courts could still overturn them if they tried.
They didn't deny standing to the whole state, if the State had appealed the decision, they would have had Standing - the State government choose not to.
DISCLAIMER: That is what legally occurred. Personally I think that when a law is legally passed then the State or Federal government has an obligation to make a defense of the law. If as an Attorney General you can't defend a law, then resign so someone else can. But that is my opinion.
And yet you have said that dispite the fact that legislative law (and even State Constitutional Amendments were in place) that barred interracital marriage, the 14th Amendment would prohibit such bans.
Let me paragraphs: "Bans I agree with should not be overturned by the courts, bans I don't agree with should be overturned by the courts."
First of all Civil Marriage is not a religious institution. It is a legal status, no religion is required as part of it's functioning.
But OK, Fine. There are two options that would comply with your statement above.
#1 - Remove government from all aspects Civil Marriage, remove it from the books completely. No tax free transfer of property between spouses, not assumed parentage to children born - the father would have to adopt any children to become a legal parent, no medical decision making except by family without a medical power of attorney, no shared estate, no state laws mandating health insurance coverage for anyone other than the employee and his/her dependent children, etc., etc. Go for it, remove Civil Marriage from the law - good luck with that.
#2 - All current Civil Marriages are voided and replaced by Civil Unions that apply equally to couples of same and mixed gender compositions. Basically Civil Unions replace Civil Marriages and are available equally. I could by that as my Religious Marriage is before God and I could care less what the government calls it.
I have little problem with civil unions and I dont think most of the nation would. But that isnt good enough apparently for the gay community. It really seems like they are trying to rub this in the face of religous groups. The term marriage has religious conotations and probably doesnt belong in government for either type of union.
They did try for Civil Unions and as a result many state passed State Constitutional bans not only on Civil Marriage, but ANY legal status for same sex couples like the Commonwealth of Virginia. Civil Unions are banned here in the same amendment that Civil Marriages for same sex couples are banned.
You might also want to rethink that nice sounding talking point. Washington State passed an equality bill (Senate Bill 5688) with provided equality but the only difference was the name, they were called Civil Unions. However, it was considered "to much like marriage" and a signature referendum was started to block the law. It was defeated 53/47, but it show that many people don't want the gays to even be able to have Civil Unions.
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