I have a solution.............if you don't want to tithe, don't go to church and seek out God on your own.
Yes, it is possible.
Of course its possible ; in my view a person curious about God would be better off avoiding churches and study on their own. That way they would not be affected with human meddling. Bypass all the junk that is in others and don't let them pour that mess into you.
Actually, that's kinda how I came to my current belief in God. As a child, I was shifted around from family to family (was in foster care after I was orphaned at 8), and every family I was placed in would tell me that the beliefs of the family I just left were wrong and that I now had to believe as they did.
I quit church at 16 because of that.
Later, because I still knew there was something out there that was bigger than me, I started to look at other belief systems until I found one that suited me, which was Tao. In studying Tao, I saw where all belief systems were pretty much similar.........they all have some form of a deity that watches over us, we should take care of others, not lie, cheat, steal or murder, and that if we do good here, we will go somewhere better when we shuffle off our mortal coil. If not, we go somewhere else.
Now? I like to listen to rabbis, some preachers, study Judaism, Buddhism, Tao, and parts of Christianity. The place where I part ways with certain belief systems is when they get mired down in their own dogma. My belief? The only "sin" that there is, is what is outlined in the 10 Commandments or the 7 Noahide Commandments. Anything else is just a vice, which if followed long enough, can cause you to sin.
Besides...................I firmly think that God is too big to be contained in just 1 dogma, and I also think that He speaks to each of us in a unique way, because as humans, we are all just a little bit different, and have differing views of how we perceive the world.
And..................if we are all alike, we are drones and clones, and God doesn't want that, because if He didn't, we wouldn't have free will.