Long but fun posting. Grab your Cappuccino first! And TGIF....
Wow, it just occurred to me, with all the crazy things that had been going on in my life, that I missed my 1-year anniversary in USMB. LOL. Duh, Stat, doh....
I joined on November 21, 2013 and was flying back to Germany from the USA on November 21, 2014.
Where did the "year" go to, anyhoo......???
Here's to my first year in USMB, Champagne for everyone:
A toast to the many new acquaintances I have made this last "year" in USMB!
A special toast to
cereal_killer , who went out of his way to make me feel welcome here and has often given very good input to me in convos. You don't always find that in a site-administrator.
Many have been asking in PM (convos) how I am doing. I am quite sad because it has been a truly shitty month for me and my family in just so many ways, but I am ok. That being said, I've always been a strong believer in hard work and that that time, work and concentration on the task at hand can heal many wounds. As my mentor always said to me: "there's no substitute for a good work ethic".
The trip to the USA triggered a weekend switch with my daughter and so she is going to be with me both this weekend (in lieu of last weekend) AND next weekend (which would be the normally scheduled weekend, anyway). Wohoo!!!!
Tonight we are going to a vocal comedy at a small but very fun theater in the city where I live.
Tomorrow I have just a little bit of work and then the little one and I will go for a long hike. We may also clean out the cellar since Monday in my neighborhood is a day called
SPERRMÜLLTAG. This day happens four times a year in most cities in Germany, where people can put old furniture, electronics and stuff on the curb for free pick-up and such and well, it's been 5 years since I have thought to clean out my cellar compartment. It's time, it really is.... and I am thinking that the little one (soon to be 8, I had better start calling her 3/4 pint instead of 1/2 pint!!) might like to help. If you put this kind of large and bulky stuff out on any other day other than the one specifically assigned for this task, then you get a bill for the pick-up. Most people put out their stuff one the night before SPERRMÜLLTAG, or even the night before, so that the other people can come by and pick-up anything they want before the city comes and hauls the stuff away. I found a perfectly good bedroom chest for my daughter's room this way: most of her books fit into it.
On Sunday, as usual, swimming is on the plan. And I plan to play every single game that she has in her bedroom, from memory to happy hippo to go fish to you name it, to find out what games she is willing to sort out of the mix because her room is SO full of stuff, I have no idea how she is going to fit in new stuff this coming Christmas!! One of the unexpected things I have experienced as a divorced person whose child comes to visit every two weeks is that her toys stay in perfect condition. In fact, she has never once broken a toy or game or puzzle even once, which is now leading to a clutter problem. But I cannot remove anything on my own - that kid has a perfect, almost photographic memory, of where everything is in her room.
Any parents out there with helpful suggestions?
Have a good TGIF, folks!