Not having kids is not selfish. It's a choice. One is better off not having kids if they don't want the responsibility.
four variables in the algebra of wealth: focus, stoicism, time, and diversification.
Anyway, itās not your income, but your income-to-expense ratio, that determines if youāre rich.
My brother is rich because the interest he makes on his money is more than enough to live on. His money is like a slave. It's out there working for him so he doesn't have to.
People conflate a lack of focus with a lack of talent. Intelligence and talent are correlated with success, but the strongest signal of future success is your perseverance and resilience: what the books in airport bookstores call āgrit.ā Unless you are supremely disciplined, your career will have to be something that gives you some enjoyment. But donāt mistake focus for your āpassion.ā People who tell you to follow your passion are already rich. Follow your talent. The accoutrements that accompany being great at something (relevance, admiration, camaraderie, money) will make you passionate about whatever āitā is.
Determine what you can and canāt control. You can control your reactions to temptation ā a lack of discipline is the antichrist to economic security. Our society of superabundance makes this difficult. Billions of dollars are spent every year on schemes to manipulate our natural impulses into spending more money, consuming more fat, and believing everyone around us is more successful than we are. The upgrade from economy to premium to business to first class to private jet can seem like an investment in yourself ā itās not. The most powerful forward-looking indicator of your financial freedom is not how much you earn, but how much you save.
āTime is the fire in which we burn,ā says the
poet. It is our most inflexible and valuable commodity, the one thing with which you should not be generous. Squander money, you may earn it back. Squander time, it is gone forever.
Re investing: The long term is our ally, the short term our nemesis. The gangster authority on time, Albert Einstein, supposedly remarked that compound interest is the eighth wonder of the world. Yet our brains are not wired to understand this. When I was 26, I thought of being 46 as the distant, irrelevant future. Now that Iāve reached that age (actually Iām 56 ⦠ugh), 26 feels as if it was last year. But small investments I made a decade-plus ago have grown into the base of my economic security.
In your life, focus is key. Plan A for financial security is being great at doing something the market values highly, and leveraging that into income and/or equity in a business. But Plan A squared is investments. And with
investments, focus is to be avoided. Diversify and, unless your plan is to be in the finance industry, be sure that your time spent tracking/trading does not distract you from what is/should be your source of income and savings.
Investing over the long term pays out, but there are always dips along the way. Diversification is kevlar ā with it, bad decisions will still hurt, but they wonāt prove fatal. Diversification, in other words, is your bulletproof vest.