You are seeing a conspiracy where none exists.
There is no "they".
Sweet Cakes by Melissa was sued by someone who felt insulted and hurt from the discrimination, and took it to the court. The pizza place thing caught fire on the internet and blew up.
Are you saying there isn't a group(s) of people who try to destroy the lives of those who don't agree with them about homosexuality?
What do you mean by 'The pizza place thing caught fire on the internet and blew up'?
There are plenty of people who feel very strongly about it.
They are not in any sense organized into a "group", anymore than the people who spend their time complaining about it and sending them money are.
That does not answer whether or not you think there is one or more groups of people who are trying to destroy the livelihoods of people who don't agree with the ideas of gay marriage and homosexuality. Do you think a nurse should be fired because she posted a picture on her FB account to the effect of believing in traditional marriage? Also, what do you mean by 'The pizza place thing caught fire on the internet and blew up'? Time and again we see certain groups of people try to get others fired or destroy their businesses because of the simple views and opinions they have in life. What do you think about that?
No, there are not "one or more groups" dedicated to destroying conservative's lives. Seriously, the persecution complex thing is getting really silly.
What you see as nefarious groups plotting against you are just a lot of people reacting to something. It's no different than when the Dixie Chicks were "destroyed" during the Iraq war - they said something, and people got outraged.
You guys are going to eventually realize that what you think is a conspiracy against you is actually the tide of public opinion itself.