By the way, if you're going to call ME racially inferior to YOU do us all a favor a grow the fuck up. Starting your post with "whatever" suggests to the rest of us that you have the majority of a 15 year old teenage girl pouting about not being to go to the mall. It's childish and doesn't belong in an adult conversation. Shalom.
you don't like the word 'whatever'? too bad. you base your argument on your testimony about your personal life which cannot be verified. a testimony that gets finetuned depending on what you want it to say. Myself, I believe most of what you say is probably true although selectively chosen for best effect. On the old MSN message board I had blacks tell me that they had perfect SAT scores, highest score on the military exams, best gpa even though they only had 1200 SAT, MENSA members, etc, etc. I couldn't 'prove' them wrong even if I tried. I don't care if you or they were just making up stories or telling the truth. Reality says that blacks on average achieve less, have more social dysfunction, and commit crimes, all out of proportion to their population size.
Personally I believe peoples best insights on race and poverty in general comes directly from personal experience. You can gather up all the statistics you want but you'll never understand life until you live it. I stopped arguing the "race" issue with statistics and numbers a long time ago because I learned that somethings look real good on paper but don't mean shit in reality. People, black, white, asian, or hispanic are far more complex than what can be put on paper. Your asking questions that can only be answered if we examine people's daily lie to understand the complex human psyche. But you are trying to answer them using numbers and statistics. Doesn't work that way.
I use real life personal anecdotes to help people ACTUALLY UNDERSTAND the complex realities surrounding the life of someone in America of a different race/culture/nationality. That's all I'm willing to offer, because nothing else will solve the "race problem" in America but that.
As for me not liking the word "whatever", I don't dislike words, I dislike poor and rotten attitudes. Attitudes I do not think I deserve, even though I'm a useless ******.