You know......if 2 people wanna shack up and live together, sharing everything with the knowledge that whatever they accumulate together will be divvied up when they separate should be allowed for anyone.
I mean........I was miserable and married once, until I figured out how to get my bachelor card back. Cost me everything except my clothes and bicycles, had to pay child support, and oh yeah......the divorce cost me 1,500 bucks.
If 2 gay people wanna go through the same experience, more power to 'em.However.........one thing that I do believe very much is that if you have a partner whom you've lived with for over 1 year straight, you should be allowed into their hospital room if they are sick or seriously injured. Unfortunately, you've gotta be immediate family or a spouse to do that.
Gays shouldn't be stopped from marrying. And, they should be allowed to serve in the US Armed Forces openly. Everyone screams that if gays serve openly, the military would suffer serious attrition. However..........based on my experience of 20 years in the Navy, coupled with the last 2 1/2 years that I spent running the Navy office at MEPS Amarillo during my career, I can tell you this........
If gays were allowed to serve openly, the attrition rate from the military would be more than matched by the willing volunteers who are gay who really want to serve.