What is missing from these "discussions" of heterosexuality and sexual health is honest discussion, leaving aggression at the door. If one can have sex in the bedroom, one can have an honest discussion in the kitchen. The idea is not only to talk about what you want, it is also to sit down and listen to how the other person feels and what s/he wants. It takes commitment and work. To those "religious" folks who think that sex is just *******, like they continually portray it, it's not.
That is absolutely NOT the religious view of sex, gf.
Is this some kind of weird projection thing? I'm getting confuzzled.
It seems to be the view of sex among the "Christian" cults. the fundies. When they bring up sex on USMB, for example, it is always in the context of some sort of heterosexual free-for-all, promiscuous men and promiscuous women just waiting for closing time at some bar. "Oh, keep your knees together, you slut!" I get the impression that fundies are promiscuous or view everyone else as promiscuous.
Just what is the "religious" view of sex? What religion? What is your answer to the guys on USMB who post pictures of young women with big breasts? Can I post a picture of some guy who attracts me (Yes, there are guys who attract me because I am a heterosexual female). Can you take your message of celibacy to your nearest military base? High school hang-out? Is the rule, for all to be followed, no sex until you are married and then stay true to the person with whom you have taken vows, or not? Is it the rule that a virgin marries a virgin and they discover sex together?