Nevada, Arizona, New Mexico, Texas, Louisiana, Kansas, Mississippi.............These states have larger cities under a million. A lot of people are moving to these states, because of the bullshit and political crap going on in the northern states. It's more rampant up there than down here.
There's lots of industry down here too, plenty to choose from. Most people in the smaller cities are going to be more laid back as well.
But you can always do what a lot of people do down here..............work in the city and live in the country.
As for selling your house, I don't know what area you live in, or anything about your home........so I really can't say.
I will say, you should have your house and land appraised for 2023 value specs. It will give you a base to work with.