I commend you Care4all, in that you are well versed in your churches doctrine. Most Catholics that I have meet know very little about Catholic doctrine or what it means.
I'm married to a nondenominational Christian, had to study and research all of this on my own and with him, who questioned darn near everything of the Catholic Church when we were first married....so we went looking for answers together...
I never went to Catholic school and I probably had less than 2 years of Catechism over a 12 year period, because we moved all the time...so I am self taught, when it comes to the Bible and Catholic Doctrine...
And I am an excommunicated Catholic....so I suppose I am not really a Catholic any more....?
when very young, I married a Catholic man, and 3 years later, I was divorced. 6-7 years after staying single, I met my current husband and married him....at that point I was excommunicated and did not have the time or money to pursue an annulment, so I accepted my punishment, I suppose...
My Father, had a Southern Baptist mother and his father was Methodist, I believe? My mother raised her children, including me, as Catholic...
I did not get in to studying the Catholic Doctrine until after I was excommunicated...I was looking for an OUT to my excommunication or to find as many faults as possible with the Catholic Church to say she was a Cult myself so that I could take on my husband's Christian Church with comfort...
The OPPOSITE happened.
All those things that my husband questioned regarding the Catholic church which were very similar to your list, that we ended up researching the Doctrine on, turned out to actually be Biblically sound Doctrine....my husband agreed with me....on most if not all of them, were Biblically sound Doctrine in our opinions.
care