If you are taking from the system, then yes, mine count more then yours-since I am not taking.
No, that's false. Completely false. First, I don't have Federal assistance on my medical care, I have state assistance. Which I also pay into. It's not free. It is subsidized.
As it is likely your consumption is greater then your contribution- what value do you perceive them to have? It has nothing to do with being smug. I am being logical.
Well, you're wrong all around. I'm not consuming more than I take because I pay federal, state and local taxes. I also own a home so I pay real estate taxes. In fact, not knowing what you earn each year, but I'd be willing to bet my total tax contribution is what yours is, if not higher, because I also live in San Diego County, one of the highest priced real estate markets there is.
You don't have a right to object to that attitude though. Or you can, but you don't have the right to tell me you object. And if you do, I do have the right to tell you to **** off. You get how that works right? Because you know, you're not actually a better person than me. Your thoughts are not more important than mine, nor more just. I'm not trying to win my position with you because clearly you have very different opinions than me on this subject.
I do think it's very smug, and very arrogant to tell someone with multiple jobs to get more instead of taking a DISCOUNT on their kids' health care. That's not just smug, it's shitty. It's a shitty thing to say. It's just really, really, really shitty of you to say is all.
You are here on a message board- that is time that could be earning money- right?
I am working. Right now. At one of my jobs. Isn't that crazy how technology allows us to multi-task like that?!
If your current income is not sufficient, even with two jobs, then I am here to state that you ought to find either a third job, or get a better one.
And I am here to tell you to not tell me how to live my life. I'm here to tell you that your opinion of what I should do with my time should be kept to yourself. I'm here to tell you that government should not be a reflection of our most selfish needs, and don't kid yourself, your way of thinking is TREMENDOUSLY selfish. Why? Because you think your way of living life is the only to live life correctly.
That makes you smug. That makes you judgmental, and that makes you selfish. There are all sorts of circumstances that completely justify taking a government hand out. Do you think those with permanent and physical disabilities should get assistance? How about widows whose sole bread-winner dies suddenly?
You want to know why I deplore your way of thought? Because it robs government, and in turn, its citizens of its human decency. That's why. We all know life sucks, and we all know life isn't fair. Conservatives want to wallow in it, and force everyone else to wallow in it with them.
Unless and until I'm allowed to specifically dictate where my tax dollars go (i.e. way less to defense (wars) and way more to social programs), you have to live with paying for some people to have welfare. That's what living in America is supposed to be out. We both don't get exactly what we want, but we get enough to make the other one not feel completely disenfranchised.