No matter who it harms in the meantime?
Harm comes with many different faces these days.
Affirmative action was once necessary to break down artificial barriers created by irrational prejudice, fear, and hatred. Those battles have been won, but at a cost of emerging new irrational discrimination.
Black rap singers can use all kinds of inflammatory, hateful, disrespectful, demeaning lanaguage toward anybody in their lyrics and do so with impunity. A talk show guy does an innocent 'nappy headed hos' quip intended as humor, and he is thrown off the airways.
A white guy isn't allowed to say what a noose or confederate flag, neither of which has any racial connotations to him whatsoever, mean to him. If he displays either he is branded as a racist. In many circles a black guy isn't allowed to dress up in a nice business suit, speak good English, and relate to others with "Miss Manners" ettiquete. If he does he is accused of being an "oreo" or 'acting white, which is a betrayal of his people', or he is a 'hanky head'.
One group on one hand demeans and denigrates marriage as a dying institution but militantly demand that gays be able to use the word and refuse any compromise that would meet the needs/wants of both groups. Others rightfully recognize that to change what marriage is would in fact for all practical purposes destroy marriage as an institution, but rather than work out compromises for homosexuals and heterosexuals alike, they block efforts to help gay couples to solve real issues such as right of inheritance, hospital visitation privileges, etc.
In my view this kind of stuff trivializes real racism and discrimination and creates huge barriers to eliminating racist or bigoted attitudes from our culture. At what point will we stop this kind of insane stupidity, let people be offended when it is only words, get past semantics so that we can solve real problems, and exercise some common sense again?