Relationship Discussions Thread

[dmp]

You sell yourself waaaaay to short. You're a very nice looking man.
So you're not built like Arnold. I don't particularly like that. You have NO REASON to ever hang your head.

Thanks Joz...I don't hang my head...but I have accurate vision. I know what I like like. I know how my body is. Not very physically attractive. No worries...just reality

 

[Joz]

Hey - you look like RightSaidFred...you're too sexy for your Shirt. M.Campbell, however...

So, we don't get let in on the joke?!

 

[dmp]

So, we don't get let in on the joke?!

no joke...just a coworker...woman who is nearly bald on top. Perhaps one or two hair strands every inch or three. it's weird.

 

[Joz]

Thanks Joz...I don't hang my head...but I have accurate vision. I know what I like like. I know how my body is. Not very physically attractive. No worries...just reality

Maybe that's the problem. You're looking thru your eyes. You ought to try looking thru someone else's eyes. Someone who loves you. I think you'd see something different.

 

[Joz]

I just got in from listening to the first set the band played tonight. There's this little thing that's there tonight, has been out a couple other nights, too. Looks about 15, but she's soon to be 25. But, she has already 'offered' herself to the lead singer, Bobby. This is the 2nd one (that I know) and I'm sure many more, who have met him, and offered to take him home. I am also aware that some women are crazy just because a man is on the stage. I've seen women wrap their legs around MM. I've seen women unzip their pants for him. And I sit by & watch all this unfold.

But what is wrong with these girls? Maybe you fellows looked for this kind of girl when you were single. But I don't get it, I'm sorry. In my entire life, I have never had a one-night stand. I couldn't imagine having a casual sexual relationship with someone. I don't consider myself a prude. And I will discuss any aspect of sex with anyone, providing it's on an adult level. I just don't understand this behavior. Especially with the disease that's out there now. Please explain it to me.

 

[dilloduck]

I just got in from listening to the first set the band played tonight. There's this little thing that's there tonight, has been out a couple other nights, too. Looks about 15, but she's soon to be 25. But, she has already 'offered' herself to the lead singer, Bobby. This is the 2nd one (that I know) and I'm sure many more, who have met him, and offered to take him home. I am also aware that some women are crazy just because a man is on the stage. I've seen women wrap their legs around MM. I've seen women unzip their pants for him. And I sit by & watch all this unfold.

But what is wrong with these girls? Maybe you fellows looked for this kind of girl when you were single. But I don't get it, I'm sorry. In my entire life, I have never had a one-night stand. I couldn't imagine having a casual sexual relationship with someone. I don't consider myself a prude. And I will discuss any aspect of sex with anyone, providing it's on an adult level. I just don't understand this behavior. Especially with the disease that's out there now. Please explain it to me.

It's the theory of the magic dick-----if you screw someone "famous", you are famous

 

[Joz]

It's the theory of the magic dick-----if you screw someone "famous", you are famous

Well that makes everything alright, then. I understand if you have the groupie mentality. But not all of them do.

There is this one( I forgot about her) who wants Bobby soooo badly. I think it's become an obsession. She says she would be so good for him. Just how good can you be for someone if they aren't attracted to you?! She wears his favorite perfume, got hair extentions, has lost 30 lbs, and comes dressed in outfits she thinks he will like. He just isn't attracted to her. Why does she think persistence will work?

 

[dilloduck]

Well that makes everything alright, then. I understand if you have the groupie mentality. But not all of them do.

There is this one( I forgot about her) who wants Bobby soooo badly. I think it's become an obsession. She says she would be so good for him. Just how good can you be for someone if they aren't attracted to you?! She wears his favorite perfume, got hair extentions, has lost 30 lbs, and comes dressed in outfits she thinks he will like. He just isn't attracted to her. Why does she think persistence will work?

I never said it was OK--I just answered you

She's desperate

 

[Joz]

I never said it was OK--I just answered you

I know you never said it was ok.

She's desperate

She's not a bad looking lady; older than I expected. Has a grown daughter. Works. I think something's amiss.

 

[dilloduck]

I never said it was OK--I just answered you[/quoote]I know you never said it was ok.

She's not a bad looking lady; older than I expected. Has a grown daughter. Works. I think something's amiss.

desperate to feel young and "attractive" again?

 

[Joz]

desperate to feel young and "attractive" again?

Well who doesn't?? Still I don't go inviting men home I just met. Nor wiggle my ass for them. Whatever happened to ladies being ladies. I know this sounds like the 'pregnant & barefoot theory" & I don't mean it like that.

 

[dilloduck]

Well who doesn't?? Still I don't go inviting men home I just met. Nor wiggle my ass for them. Whatever happened to ladies being ladies. I know this sounds like the 'pregnant & barefoot theory" & I don't mean it like that.

Times are a changing ,Joz----Hell, I pick my kid up from school and all the girls thongs are hanging out and boobs bouncing all over the damn place.

 

[Annie]

Well who doesn't?? Still I don't go inviting men home I just met. Nor wiggle my ass for them. Whatever happened to ladies being ladies. I know this sounds like the 'pregnant & barefoot theory" & I don't mean it like that.

One would wonder if the one asking such a question ever felt worthy of someone attractive? LOL More than likely, not.

 

[Joz]

Times are a changing ,Joz----Hell, I pick my kid up from school and all the girls thongs are hanging out and boobs bouncing all over the damn place.

But is this how we want our daughters to behave? My son teaches guitar to a girl 15 years old. He's afraid to be in the same room with her; keeps the door open a bit. When her mom signed her up, she asked the store personnel if the teacher was "good looking"? What difference did that make if she was there to learn the guitar? Aaron says she dresses quite provocatively; would never let his daughter out of the house looking like that.

 

[dilloduck]

But is this how we want our daughters to behave? My son teaches guitar to a girl 15 years old. He's afraid to be in the same room with her; keeps the door open a bit. When her mom signed her up, she asked the store personnel if the teacher was "good looking"? What difference did that make if she was there to learn the guitar? Aaron says she dresses quite provocatively; would never let his daughter out of the house looking like that.

All you can do is raise you own the best ya can--and THAT's no guarantee

 

[Annie]

I just realized that what I posted after sounded not so nice. Wanted to make clear it was not to JOZ:

Originally Posted by dilloduck
desperate to feel young and "attractive" again?

Don't think Joz has a problem with the sentiments. Don't know anyone that would.

 

[dilloduck]

I just realized that what I posted after sounded not so nice. Wanted to make clear it was not to JOZ:

Originally Posted by dilloduck
desperate to feel young and "attractive" again?

Don't think Joz has a problem with the sentiments. Don't know anyone that would.

with all due respect, I think a hell of a lot of women are trying to look young again. Check out the make-up ads.

 

[Avatar4321]

How the heck would I know anything about Avatar's sex life???

Good question. I dont even know about it.

 

[Joz]

with all due respect, I think a hell of a lot of women are trying to look young again. Check out the make-up ads.

Is that so bad? Why not look the best you can? I don't think I would have an extreme makeover, but a nip & tuck maybe if I weren't such a chicken. I'm waiting for lasers to do the trick or an 'at-home' kit. By then, I'll be too old to care.

 

[dilloduck]

Good question. I dont even know about it.

well she sure gave ya the multi sarcastic look----I'd flame her for it