Rage and Hate

[Pogo]

We all have deep emotions that we have stuffed, layers and layers.

Anger and Rage is really Fear disguised.

It is good to get our anger our, as long as it doesn't hurt another person or animal...or be destructive.

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Do you think most people know what the fear is that drives their anger?

I don't believe fear drives it. I agree with the rest of the post but not the premise.

To the OP question I believe in letting out passions in full, in the moment, so that they don't fester. Then they're spent. Stopping short of destruction of course. Get it all out, wipe the slate clean and continue refreshed. It's cathartic.

One of my favorite emoticons, because it sums up how silly anger can get, is this....

I would be happy to express my anger------but (alas) I do not own a machine gun

We all thank our lucky stars for that.

But if your shooting was anything like your posting you'd never hit anything anyway.

 

[Eaglewings]

BTW:

If you are feeling Rage..walk away for a few minutes and Breath Deep..many times you will find that you are holding your breath which tells the spinal cord to Fight or Flight..it is wired into us from 1000s of years.

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[Pogo]

I get angry when I'm accused or told I said something I didn't say, and have now way to prove it.

Maybe I am afraid of people believing false things about me?
I also don't want to come across as defensive.

Ah -- I get that all the time. Just note that the onus is on the asserter and make them prove it. When they can't --- you win.*

That's common around here, doesn't faze me. What does faze me is intentional stupidity -- you show somebody that "2+2=4" and they keep right on insisting that it equals five in abject denial.


*"First they ignore you.
Then they laugh at you.
Then they attack you.
-- Then you win." -- Ghandi

 

[OldLady]

I had a very high stress job once and the 'professionals' said to take out my bottled up rage by regular physical exercise. That, my friends, only takes the edge off.
What I hate is people who tear others down emotionally in order to stay "in control." I was raised by one and the alarm bells never stop ringing when I encounter a bully.

 

[irosie91]

We all have deep emotions that we have stuffed, layers and layers.

Anger and Rage is really Fear disguised.

It is good to get our anger our, as long as it doesn't hurt another person or animal...or be destructive.

.

Do you think most people know what the fear is that drives their anger?

I don't believe fear drives it. I agree with the rest of the post but not the premise.

To the OP question I believe in letting out passions in full, in the moment, so that they don't fester. Then they're spent. Stopping short of destruction of course. Get it all out, wipe the slate clean and continue refreshed. It's cathartic.

One of my favorite emoticons, because it sums up how silly anger can get, is this....

I would be happy to express my anger------but (alas) I do not own a machine gun

We all thank our lucky stars for that.

But if your shooting was anything like your posting you'd never hit anything anyway.

sadly----lots of people are HIT by stray bullets

 

[Eaglewings]

what is something that brings out rate and hate in you?

Most people will say pedofiles, or people that abuse dogs, but, are there "simple things" that make you snap?

One of mine is people that refuse to slow down or speed up to merge. I'm going 55-60 MPH and I should not have to work about the 5 cars in to my left trying to merge or I may end up in the tail end of the car in front of me.

I really get angry when people lie to make their point valid ( just happened..lol )

I get really angry when someone hurts a innocent animal, or person..

What I get boiling about is when someone tries to control me, I have always been independent

If you let other people get you angry you are letting them control you.

Agree! This is why they say to forgive someone not because what they did was ok..but to take the power back from them.
As long as they are in your head making you angry ...They have power over you, ....

LOL just talking about this stuff is pissing me off this morning..lol I have some things I am really angry about since I got sick..

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[Pogo]

We all have deep emotions that we have stuffed, layers and layers.

Anger and Rage is really Fear disguised.

It is good to get our anger our, as long as it doesn't hurt another person or animal...or be destructive.

.

Do you think most people know what the fear is that drives their anger?

I don't believe fear drives it. I agree with the rest of the post but not the premise.

To the OP question I believe in letting out passions in full, in the moment, so that they don't fester. Then they're spent. Stopping short of destruction of course. Get it all out, wipe the slate clean and continue refreshed. It's cathartic.

One of my favorite emoticons, because it sums up how silly anger can get, is this....

In the counseling world...Rage is fear...

Rage is considered to be an emergency reaction that humans are pre-wired to possess. Rage tends to be expressed when a person faces a threat to their pride, position, status, or dignity.[11]


Rage (emotion) - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia

. The “fight or flight” response prepares your body to fight or flee from a perceived threat to your survival. It is a warning bell that tells you that something is wrong.

Fight or Flight: The Physiological Response | Anger Alternatives

Nope. I don't agree at all. I feel no "fear" in rage, nor vice versa.
If anything it's the opposite.

Matter of fact it's two different sides of the brain involved. Anger is the only major emotion that comes from the left hemisphere. Fun fact.

 

[Bonzi]

what is something that brings out rate and hate in you?

Most people will say pedofiles, or people that abuse dogs, but, are there "simple things" that make you snap?

One of mine is people that refuse to slow down or speed up to merge. I'm going 55-60 MPH and I should not have to work about the 5 cars in to my left trying to merge or I may end up in the tail end of the car in front of me.

I really get angry when people lie to make their point valid ( just happened..lol )

I get really angry when someone hurts a innocent animal, or person..

What I get boiling about is when someone tries to control me, I have always been independent

It pisses me off when I hear a really stupid lie. Don't insult me by acting like you think I'm stupid enough to believe a bullshit lie.

that's my husband's. or when people try to talk around something.... w/out answering

 

[Pogo]

People who PASS ON THE RIGHT-----due to a problem of vision---I do not drive anymore-----SO I AM IN THE DEATH SEAT (for those who do not know----on
the right of the driver) THUS I am acutely aware of those evil people who
*****PASS ON THE RIGHT***** (may they all burn in hell)

That's a winner, we fully agree here. People who pass on the right, unless they're in Britain or Japan or one of those places where they all drive on the wrong side ---- must die.

 

[Eaglewings]

We all have deep emotions that we have stuffed, layers and layers.

Anger and Rage is really Fear disguised.

It is good to get our anger our, as long as it doesn't hurt another person or animal...or be destructive.

.

Do you think most people know what the fear is that drives their anger?

I don't believe fear drives it. I agree with the rest of the post but not the premise.

To the OP question I believe in letting out passions in full, in the moment, so that they don't fester. Then they're spent. Stopping short of destruction of course. Get it all out, wipe the slate clean and continue refreshed. It's cathartic.

One of my favorite emoticons, because it sums up how silly anger can get, is this....

In the counseling world...Rage is fear...

Rage is considered to be an emergency reaction that humans are pre-wired to possess. Rage tends to be expressed when a person faces a threat to their pride, position, status, or dignity.[11]


Rage (emotion) - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia

. The “fight or flight” response prepares your body to fight or flee from a perceived threat to your survival. It is a warning bell that tells you that something is wrong.

Fight or Flight: The Physiological Response | Anger Alternatives

Nope. I don't agree at all. I feel no "fear" in rage, nor vice versa. If anything it's the opposite

So you have kind Rage...lol seriously what was the last time you totally lost it and what was it about?

 

[Bonzi]

what is something that brings out rate and hate in you?

Most people will say pedofiles, or people that abuse dogs, but, are there "simple things" that make you snap?

One of mine is people that refuse to slow down or speed up to merge. I'm going 55-60 MPH and I should not have to work about the 5 cars in to my left trying to merge or I may end up in the tail end of the car in front of me.

I really get angry when people lie to make their point valid ( just happened..lol )

I get really angry when someone hurts a innocent animal, or person..

What I get boiling about is when someone tries to control me, I have always been independent

If you let other people get you angry you are letting them control you.

Agree! This is why they say to forgive someone not because what they did was ok..but to take the power back from them.
As long as they are in your head making you angry ...They have power over you, ....

LOL just talking about this stuff is pissing me off this morning..lol I have some things I am really angry about since I got sick..

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well... let's hear it!

 

[Eaglewings]

People who PASS ON THE RIGHT-----due to a problem of vision---I do not drive anymore-----SO I AM IN THE DEATH SEAT (for those who do not know----on
the right of the driver) THUS I am acutely aware of those evil people who
*****PASS ON THE RIGHT***** (may they all burn in hell)

That's a winner, we fully agree here. People who pass on the right, unless they're in Britain or Japan or one of those places where they all drive on the wrong side ---- must die.

Try living in the SF Bay area, it is one bad mistake after another on the busy freeway.. 90% of the time it is a new person to the
Country...

 

[Bonzi]

The last thing I lost it about I was in the car, I was cursing God and losing my mind,
Ironically, I forget what it was about!

 

[Pogo]

We all have deep emotions that we have stuffed, layers and layers.

Anger and Rage is really Fear disguised.

It is good to get our anger our, as long as it doesn't hurt another person or animal...or be destructive.

.

Do you think most people know what the fear is that drives their anger?

I don't believe fear drives it. I agree with the rest of the post but not the premise.

To the OP question I believe in letting out passions in full, in the moment, so that they don't fester. Then they're spent. Stopping short of destruction of course. Get it all out, wipe the slate clean and continue refreshed. It's cathartic.

One of my favorite emoticons, because it sums up how silly anger can get, is this....

In the counseling world...Rage is fear...

Rage is considered to be an emergency reaction that humans are pre-wired to possess. Rage tends to be expressed when a person faces a threat to their pride, position, status, or dignity.[11]


Rage (emotion) - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia

. The “fight or flight” response prepares your body to fight or flee from a perceived threat to your survival. It is a warning bell that tells you that something is wrong.

Fight or Flight: The Physiological Response | Anger Alternatives

Nope. I don't agree at all. I feel no "fear" in rage, nor vice versa. If anything it's the opposite

So you have kind Rage...lol seriously what was the last time you totally lost it and what was it about?

I honestly don't remember. That's why I excise those demons immediately -- so that they're gone.

 

[OldLady]

People who PASS ON THE RIGHT-----due to a problem of vision---I do not drive anymore-----SO I AM IN THE DEATH SEAT (for those who do not know----on
the right of the driver) THUS I am acutely aware of those evil people who
*****PASS ON THE RIGHT***** (may they all burn in hell)

That's a winner, we fully agree here. People who pass on the right, unless they're in Britain or Japan or one of those places where they all drive on the wrong side ---- must die.

And people who use the break down lane to further screw up jammed highway traffic. I saw a guy pull over and sit there just to block the bastards once. They weren't happy but I gave the guy a big thumbs up. Only use the break down lane if you've got a woman in labor in the back seat.

 

[Pogo]

People who PASS ON THE RIGHT-----due to a problem of vision---I do not drive anymore-----SO I AM IN THE DEATH SEAT (for those who do not know----on
the right of the driver) THUS I am acutely aware of those evil people who
*****PASS ON THE RIGHT***** (may they all burn in hell)

That's a winner, we fully agree here. People who pass on the right, unless they're in Britain or Japan or one of those places where they all drive on the wrong side ---- must die.

Try living in the SF Bay area, it is one bad mistake after another on the busy freeway.. 90% of the time it is a new person to the
Country...

Meh -- I've lived in New Orleans. You haven't seen bad driving until you've been surrounded by people who drive as if they personally invented the Quaalude and are currently experimenting with version 6. Where you need all the lanes to be clear before you get into the near one. Where you get on a freeway and immediately drift to the far left lane going 14 under the speed limit. Where red lights are merely a suggestion for the out-of-towners. Where the inevitable fender bender is followed by the involved drivers sitting in the middle of the road scratching their heads waiting for police, not having enough sense to get the cars out of the flow of traffic..... I could go on.....

 

[Bonzi]

Oh and I want to discipline other people's kids.. BADLY!

 

[Eaglewings]

well... let's hear it!

I am really fucking angry that when I got the breast cancer the first time, I was a $$$ sign and instead of my best interest they talked me into implants even though I didn't want them. The implants were not like a person without a mastectomy has..There is no muscle or anything..it is your chest wall and skin..

I got them out after a year of horrible unnecessary pain. My body was rejecting them..

The cancer came back because she left tissue for the implants.The cancer got into my lymph nodes and spread to my body.

I had to do chemo for the second time, 2 more surgeries and radiation. again...

Plus it is a bigger chance the cancer will come back

Fucking Bitch..


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[Bonzi]

what is something that brings out rate and hate in you?

Most people will say pedofiles, or people that abuse dogs, but, are there "simple things" that make you snap?

One of mine is people that refuse to slow down or speed up to merge. I'm going 55-60 MPH and I should not have to work about the 5 cars in to my left trying to merge or I may end up in the tail end of the car in front of me.

I really get angry when people lie to make their point valid ( just happened..lol )

I get really angry when someone hurts a innocent animal, or person..

What I get boiling about is when someone tries to control me, I have always been independent

If you let other people get you angry you are letting them control you.

Agree! This is why they say to forgive someone not because what they did was ok..but to take the power back from them.
As long as they are in your head making you angry ...They have power over you, ....

LOL just talking about this stuff is pissing me off this morning..lol I have some things I am really angry about since I got sick..

.

well... let's hear it!

I am really fucking angry that when I got the breast cancer the first time, I was a $$$ sign and instead of my best interest they talked me into implants even though I didn't want them. The implants were not like a person without a mastectomy has..There is no muscle or anything..it is your chest wall and skin..

I got them out after a year of horrible unnecessary pain. My body was rejecting them..

The cancer came back because she left tissue for the implants.The cancer got into my lymph nodes and spread to my body.

I had to do chemo for the second time, 2 more surgeries and radiation. again...

Plus it is a bigger chance the cancer will come back

Fucking Bitch..


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I would DEFINITELY be pissed! Major League Pissed!

 

[Auld Phart]

We all have deep emotions that we have stuffed, layers and layers.

Anger and Rage is really Fear disguised.

It is good to get our anger our, as long as it doesn't hurt another person or animal...or be destructive.

.

Do you think most people know what the fear is that drives their anger?

I don't believe fear drives it. I agree with the rest of the post but not the premise.

To the OP question I believe in letting out passions in full, in the moment, so that they don't fester. Then they're spent. Stopping short of destruction of course. Get it all out, wipe the slate clean and continue refreshed. It's cathartic.

One of my favorite emoticons, because it sums up how silly anger can get, is this....

I would be happy to express my anger------but (alas) I do not own a machine gun

We all thank our lucky stars for that.

But if your shooting was anything like your posting you'd never hit anything anyway.

sadly----lots of people are HIT by stray bullets

That's why I go to the range