There are whites and blacks that discriminate against biracial children, (that's a fact jack), in this woman's head...(possibly because she is one of those bigots above or has a family that fits the bill, but not necessarily so), this is not what she wanted, nor what she paid for, nor what the sperm bank told her she would get....nor what she wanted for her own flesh and blood to have to go through in life...
And no, this isn't a simple coffee pot that was wrong...this is a human being....I agree, and a human lasts a lifetime.
The sperm bank should have just settled out of court, they made a huge mistake, and part of rectifying such mistake, would have been admitting to the severity of the negligent wrong doing, and giving justice to the customer they wronged....without going to court and putting this family through having to do so.
If this woman was told upfront that her sperm donor was a hit or miss situation and no one could pick and choose their donor by color of hair, eyes, skin, then 10 to 1, this woman, and many if not all straight women alike, would never choose this sperm bank.
I think if I were this woman, I would not have sued, especially if I knew it would be a media internet frenzy like it has become, (most likely due to her being a lesbian), and I knew my daughter in the future would be harmed by this....then perhaps I would have found a way to fight the bigotry out there for biracial children instead of taking the "you harmed me and my girl martyr'' route...?
But this was not my decision to make, and this woman does have the legal right to sue in this circumstance, however crazy, and bigoted it may seem to us.