Not that it was difficult to get condoms before. Now don't go off on how "the pill" is great for medical reasons, because you specifically cited reducing abortion. That's done easily with better condom use, and you can get them almost everywhere.
Perhaps you should educate yourself first before going any further.
Study Free Birth Control Slashes Abortion Rates TIME.com
Free vs cheap. Of course free gets used more. I wasn't arguing that, I was saying contraception was cheap and easy to get long before obamadon'tcare came along, no matter what Sandra Fluke tells you.
You didn't read the link, did you?
EFFECTIVE birth control reduces the incidence of abortions. Cheap isn't as effective.
OK and how does effective birth control
reduce the incidence of
* rape
* incest
* sexual and relationship abuse/fraud
* sex slavery and trafficking
* military and prison rape
If we address the root cause of all forms of sexual abuse,
this stops not only unwanted pregnancy and abortion
but all these other social ills from abusing women, children and sex.
So wouldn't focusing on the root cause of abuse in the first place
do more good by solving several problems on all levels?
I don't buy the argument that most abortions are caused by sexual abuse. While SOME undoubtedly are, and reducing such abuse would clearly reduce those, many are not, and would be untouched by that effort, laudable as it is.
it depends how you define sexual abuse.
I happen to find that if people do not agree to get pregnant, then the sex was abused or the relationship was abused.
But that is up to each person to come to that understanding and cannot be mandated or forced by anyone else.
I have a very high level of consent, where someone has to consent on all levels to truly consent
or else it's coercion or abuse.
Most people don't even know what consent is because we are so
used to being pressured, bullied and forced to compromise.
I have only seen two schools that practiced noncoercive principles.
To most people it is considered the norm to emotionally and verbally abuse others.
You can see on this board.
People accuse each other, and basically charge and convict people first,
and then put them on the defense to prove otherwise. So they are guilty until proven innocent,
or wrong until proven right.
This is completely backwards and abusive.
So we'd have to agree what is consent and what is abuse,
what is coercion and what is informed choiced,
and maybe we could agree how much of sexual relations
involve emotional conditions, pressure and abuse and are not
people's free and full consent.
I happen to have very high standards after I understood how easily
people get pressured and think they are consenting.
I cannot impose or prove that, but by raising awareness and standards,
then more people can refrain from abusive relations including those that abuse sex.
If it hurts, it's abuse.
And you can see that a lot more hurt goes on because people aren't
careful to respect boundaries with sexual relations and people get hurt all the time.
According to the domestic violence and women's shelters "if it hurts, it's abuse"
so I go by that standard. it's up to each person to decide what standard they want to go by.