That's tough. But...you have to remember her body is still here...but she is really not. And she is trusting you to be there for her when she can't make her own decisions BEFORE she got this way. That, hon, is love. And very hard on those having to act in her behalf. I'm so sorry, Kat.
I do remember. Last couple of months have just been rough, with the broken hip...and then she fell again thinking she could still walk. Second fall was right on her face.
She is barely eating at all....I feel her body is now shutting down. I watched that with my dad as well....once they stop eating...
Anyhow, you are right. She has been gone a long time, but now we have the need to finalize things. Hope that made sense.