Editec I have two children, one 4.5 years and one 14 months. I'm 28, relatively debt-free, and saving to buy a house in the next couple years.
Yeah, and you make a decent living and your job is secure and as yet you haven't had one of those life changing disasters which put you back to the wall. I know you won't believe me, but I am happy for your fortune to date, and hope it never changes.
No matter HOW bad my finances got, I would NEVER borrow to pay bills. I'd cancel cable, I'd cancel phones, I'd bundle up inside and avoid using the heat unless it was MANDATORY. I'd get hired at McDonalds if I had to, because there's no shortage of SOME kind of job in this country.
Yes you would. I know you cannot possisbly image circumstances that might make you do that, but believe me I can.
You do what you have to do to provide. Borrowing to pay bills is the stupidest thing a person can do, and under no circumstances should it be considered NECESSARY.
You child is sick. You suddely need $100,000 to save his life. Do you borrow that money or do you let him die?
Do you suppose that second job you're so bravely going to take (the one you think nobody but you is ambitious enough to take) at McDonalds is going to save him?
There's a bull market SOMEWHERE, editec. There's employment that's in demand SOMEWHERE.
Somewhere over the rainbow?
For ANYONE in the early part of this decade when money was not exactly hard to come by, to have thought that borrowing money to pay bills was a good idea, is PATHETIC.
Money was not hard to come by for you, you mean?
I'm not saying every single person could have made do. I'm saying MOST COULD HAVE.
I know you are. You are simply wrong.
My friend, every single bit of economic wit you have around here is completely flushed down the toilet by suggesting that anyone could have been better off by indebting themselves more to pay bills. That is the epidome of ridiculous.
I haven't said that people are better off by indebting themselves...I said they often have NO CHOICE.
Big difference.
Oh yeah, one more point...people are often better indebting themselves IF by doing so they can protect an asset they value more, and IF they can pay off that debt.
People borrow money because they are optomistic enough to imagine that tomorrow will be a better day. there are all sorts of good reasons to take on debt if you have good reason to think you can pay it back, and the money you are borrowing serves a better purpose.
When they are right, they were right to borrrow.
When they are wrong, (as for example, when the market they depended on for their investment to work, goes south) they are wrong.
None of us have a crystal ball, champ.
Life, including borrowing, is a risky venture.
Now you and I both know that some people who are going to lose their homes were risking foolishly. They couldn't possibly have paid thier VRMs when the rates changed.
What they were counting on was that before their rates changed, they'd be able to get into a fixed rate mortgage based on the fact that the value of their homes had risen fast enough for them to have the equity position they needed for that fixed rate mortgage.
But the market went south and those people are screwed.
Were they stupid?
Well, a LOT of people now securely in their homes are there precisely because that plan worked for THEM.
They DID manage to own the home long enough for the market value of their home to rise enough that they had the equity to get tht fixed rate so they refi'ed and can pay off their current mortgage.
What is the difference between those two families?
Intelligence?
No...
timing.