Does this make sense in your tiny mind?
What does that have to do with a married man and his female wife using a surrogate to have a child in this UnNatural way.
Why do you have to use insults?
Pete and his husband are being lauded. . . why? They are being congratulated and showered with praise. . . why? All they did was start a family, no big deal.
Traditionally, the reason folks congratulated a family on a successful birth, is that childbirth was, and still is, a risky endeavor. NOW, in your example, of the man and woman using a surrogate, the person that needs congratulations, of course, is the woman who gave birth.
SHE is the courageous one. NOT only did she help a couple have a child, she is going to suffer the separation post-partum of losing a child, that empty hole in her life. . . forever.
You seem to want to trivialize the act of creation, the act of creating happy, healthy families. . . it is a great miracle, and a great stress, emotionally. Pete and his husband think they can just treat it like a mail order Amazon experience, and we can laud them like heroes. . . it doesn't work that way, and it never has.
There are bonding hormones, chemicals, and real emotions that work in real families. . IF you had ever been part of one, you would know the real stress that goes on in a real family. So, even in the example that you gave, I am sure that many families that create their family this way work out just fine. . but I am also sure, there are some that have problems because they started this way.
Human reproduction and human families are an ancient thing, and the woman was revered for her power in this regard; it is the most ancient and sacred right, and any woman that cheapens this power, and dilutes it by congratulating a couple of men for ordering them selves up a child and just calling themselves a family. . . probably has no idea what is involved in giving birth herself.
One of the oldest works of art known to humanity . . . why do you think that is?
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