The road to hell is paved with good intentions, fart stain.
You should know. It's the road you're on.
If after the life I've lived and the way that I have lived it, your God looks me in the eye and tells me I deserve to burn in hell for eternity; well that's not a God I'd consider worth living for.
I have a different opinion of who God is. I treat everyone in my life as best I can, I regularly choose what's right over money or power or etc., and I try to go out of my way to make the people I work with and the people in my personal life feel special. I have a cross and a rosary hanging over my bed because IMO what they represent is beautiful. And I refuse to believe that condemning and hating others is part of that belief.
If I died right now I feel that I could look God right in the eye and tell him I've done my best to do right by everyone in my life, and do right in every circumstance that's been handed to me. And I didn't do any of it in the hopes of some eternal reward, I did it to be a decent human being. And if that's not good enough for God, then a whole lot of people are wasting their time worshiping an evil deity.
It's always amazing to me how the reprobate think they are in a position to judge God and incline themselves to do so. Salvation cannot be purchased by good works and thinking that God is going to weight your good deeds against your bad and decide based on the preponderance is foolish. All have sinned and incurred a debt that cannot possibly be repaid. This is why Jesus died, to pay that debt. Forgiveness is free, purchased for you at a great cost, but it must be asked for.
And because your mind is adumbrated by original sin and hostility toward God, your view of what's right in the eyes of God is distorted. That's why you think that warning people of pending judgment is wrong, though Jesus and all the saints and Church fathers did precisely that. Nothing you do is good enough for God, which is why we have grace, the gift of salvation given freely to all who repent and ask for it. You're no exception. You have transgressed against God like the rest of us, but you can be forgiven too, just as I have been.
Continue with your generous works, but don't think it will earn for you what can only be freely received.