Okay, so your argument is that some people are having "elective" surgery to meet their self image.
I don't see you being as upset about
Hair transplants
Breast Augmentation
Liposuctions
Tummy tucks
Rhinoplasties
Blepharoplasties on Asian who want to look more white
etc.
As for more people identifying as 'gender fluid" today, is that because it's trendy, or because people are just more comfortable being who they are.
Take left-handedness. Once upon a time, when a teacher saw little Timmy favoring his left hand, they forced him to use his right hand. Then they realized that was a bad idea, and stopped doing that.
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