ChrisL
Diamond Member
I think you should talk a little bit before a first date, but not too much because you want to save some things for the date so that you have something to talk about.
Noticing a couple wome here lately my thoughts are along the lines of:
- are they actually single?
- are they happy? will hanging out with me make them happier?
- am I SO into them I'd break a cardinal rule about not dating people who live in the same building as me?
- do I just wanna have sex with them, or is it I'm actually interested in them as individuals?
Answering these and other queries I usually talk myself out of things.
I can understand how dating someone who lives in such close proximity to you could pose problems if it doesn't work out. Lol!