On Line Dating

[Liffy]

Im better at one on ones with people in all aspects of life anyway. Because usually in those circumstance they front less.

 

[ChrisL]

I wonder what the odds are ....

That on-line chemistry translates to "real life" chemistry...
Have you ever totally "clicked" with someone on line, then met them and there was "nothing" there?

I wouldn't know. I've never used any online dating sites before.

 

[ChrisL]

I think online is a decent place to meet someone. I think for the most part people express their feelings and opinions more genuinely online than irl. I find people fake in real life always fronting or kissing up especially in the workplace it's utterly repulsive and despicable. But with online dating it begins on a one on one level immediately. And neither party can see how they are among friends, crowds

Meh, that happens often at forums like this one too. I'm sure a lot of people are phonies online and in RL too. Lol.

 

[Liffy]

I think online is a decent place to meet someone. I think for the most part people express their feelings and opinions more genuinely online than irl. I find people fake in real life always fronting or kissing up especially in the workplace it's utterly repulsive and despicable. But with online dating it begins on a one on one level immediately. And neither party can see how they are among friends, crowds

Meh, that happens often at forums like this one too. I'm sure a lot of people are phonies online and in RL too. Lol.

Well, I can see people being extremely fake online. Like JR. I can't tell if he's serious or not sometimes. I just think also when it comes to being real I've felt that when people are being true to themselves and others it's easier for them to do it online than irl.

 

[Judicial review]

I think online is a decent place to meet someone. I think for the most part people express their feelings and opinions more genuinely online than irl. I find people fake in real life always fronting or kissing up especially in the workplace it's utterly repulsive and despicable. But with online dating it begins on a one on one level immediately. And neither party can see how they are among friends, crowds

Meh, that happens often at forums like this one too. I'm sure a lot of people are phonies online and in RL too. Lol.

Or are phony's online 100% of the time, but are as real and honest as one can be in real life that attracts women to me. I'll tell you what my last Girlfriend said to me. She said, "you are too good to be true." I know I'm a very nice guy who is very put together, but I felt bad, because I simply wanted her to know THAT was ME. She'd get that 100% of the time and it required zero effort on my part. She was a good woman too. I have no regrets dating her, but I couldn't make her a secure person. I could make her appreciate herself enough to better her life for her. I was fighting a losing battle. That hurts me.

 

[ChrisL]

I think online is a decent place to meet someone. I think for the most part people express their feelings and opinions more genuinely online than irl. I find people fake in real life always fronting or kissing up especially in the workplace it's utterly repulsive and despicable. But with online dating it begins on a one on one level immediately. And neither party can see how they are among friends, crowds

Meh, that happens often at forums like this one too. I'm sure a lot of people are phonies online and in RL too. Lol.

Well, I can see people being extremely fake online. Like JR. I can't tell if he's serious or not sometimes. I just think also when it comes to being real I've felt that when people are being true to themselves and others it's easier for them to do it online than irl.

I suppose that's true to an extent.

 

[ChrisL]

I think online is a decent place to meet someone. I think for the most part people express their feelings and opinions more genuinely online than irl. I find people fake in real life always fronting or kissing up especially in the workplace it's utterly repulsive and despicable. But with online dating it begins on a one on one level immediately. And neither party can see how they are among friends, crowds

Meh, that happens often at forums like this one too. I'm sure a lot of people are phonies online and in RL too. Lol.

Or are phony's online 100% of the time, but are as real and honest as one can be in real life that attracts women to me. I'll tell you what my last Girlfriend said to me. She said, "you are too good to be true." I know I'm a very nice guy who is very put together, but I felt bad, because I simply wanted her to know THAT was ME. She'd get that 100% of the time and it required zero effort on my part. She was a good woman too. I have no regrets dating her, but I couldn't make her a secure person. I could make her appreciate herself enough to better her life for her. I was fighting a losing battle. That hurts me.

Why would someone who is secure with himself/herself have to put on airs online? What does a person get from doing this? I started posting on political forums in 2008 when the election was happening because I was concerned about my country and I wanted to find out more and all I could about this "Obama" person since, to me, he was relatively an unknown. I've stuck to it because I actually enjoy posting on these boards for some strange reason. Lol. I also like to kid around, flirt and have fun, but I never joined a political forum with the intent on "messing" with people. Why would a person do this?

 

[Liffy]

I think online is a decent place to meet someone. I think for the most part people express their feelings and opinions more genuinely online than irl. I find people fake in real life always fronting or kissing up especially in the workplace it's utterly repulsive and despicable. But with online dating it begins on a one on one level immediately. And neither party can see how they are among friends, crowds

Meh, that happens often at forums like this one too. I'm sure a lot of people are phonies online and in RL too. Lol.

Or are phony's online 100% of the time, but are as real and honest as one can be in real life that attracts women to me. I'll tell you what my last Girlfriend said to me. She said, "you are too good to be true." I know I'm a very nice guy who is very put together, but I felt bad, because I simply wanted her to know THAT was ME. She'd get that 100% of the time and it required zero effort on my part. She was a good woman too. I have no regrets dating her, but I couldn't make her a secure person. I could make her appreciate herself enough to better her life for her. I was fighting a losing battle. That hurts me.

Why would someone who is secure with himself/herself have to put on airs online? What does a person get from doing this? I started posting on political forums in 2008 when the election was happening because I was concerned about my country and I wanted to find out more and all I could about this "Obama" person since, to me, he was relatively an unknown. I've stuck to it because I actually enjoy posting on these boards for some strange reason. Lol. I also like to kid around, flirt and have fun, but I never joined a political forum with the intent on "messing" with people. Why would a person do this?

For fun. Or educational purposes. It's called trolling. I think very very few women would understand it.

 

[Delta4Embassy]

Do you think it's easier to find a good match using an on-line dating service?
Have you ever used one? How did it work for you?
What about meeting people on line, like her or on gaming sites/playing live games etc.?

Or do you think the old fashioned way of meeting people (bars, work, school etc.) is the only way to go?

Very easy if you just want meaningless sex. Fine when younger, but when you get older you want the relationship stuff too. Had a lot of success with such sites myself, but expressing myself best writing, it quickly dawned on me that people on those sites aren't exactly intellectuals.

They're the 21st century equivilent of singles bars. Don't go to a singles bar unless meeting fellow sybstance abusers is ok with you. Similarly, don't use singles/dating sites unless casual meaningless hookups is your goal.

 

[ChrisL]

I think online is a decent place to meet someone. I think for the most part people express their feelings and opinions more genuinely online than irl. I find people fake in real life always fronting or kissing up especially in the workplace it's utterly repulsive and despicable. But with online dating it begins on a one on one level immediately. And neither party can see how they are among friends, crowds

Meh, that happens often at forums like this one too. I'm sure a lot of people are phonies online and in RL too. Lol.

Or are phony's online 100% of the time, but are as real and honest as one can be in real life that attracts women to me. I'll tell you what my last Girlfriend said to me. She said, "you are too good to be true." I know I'm a very nice guy who is very put together, but I felt bad, because I simply wanted her to know THAT was ME. She'd get that 100% of the time and it required zero effort on my part. She was a good woman too. I have no regrets dating her, but I couldn't make her a secure person. I could make her appreciate herself enough to better her life for her. I was fighting a losing battle. That hurts me.

Why would someone who is secure with himself/herself have to put on airs online? What does a person get from doing this? I started posting on political forums in 2008 when the election was happening because I was concerned about my country and I wanted to find out more and all I could about this "Obama" person since, to me, he was relatively an unknown. I've stuck to it because I actually enjoy posting on these boards for some strange reason. Lol. I also like to kid around, flirt and have fun, but I never joined a political forum with the intent on "messing" with people. Why would a person do this?

For fun. Or educational purposes. It's called trolling. I think very very few women would understand it.

No, I could understand to a certain extent, but it seems as though that is ALL some people do around here! I get that there might be certain posters who are trolls so it might be fun to mess with those posters, but some people don't seem to realize that they ARE the trolls.

 

[Delta4Embassy]

The whole sex dating site thing is like the 'carousel' thing in "Logan's Run." In the movie, you're physically transported from home to home, show off your goods a bit, and if the person wants to have sex with you they pick you.

In our case, being grounded by the laws of physics (heh) we put our willingness out there online. But the aim and result is the same.

I'm now of the opinion that if you wanna meet Mr. or Ms. Right, referrals from friends, and meeting up doing an activity you both enjoy is still best. Online sites are faster, but only efficient at finding people not interested in taking their time to get to know someone. Their profiles are the 'getting to know someone.' By the time they hug hello (or whatever) they're wanting the sex.

 

[Muhammed]

Chris l you ask why because you are secure and respect yourself and body. You are a role model for women everywhere.

LOL

JR thinks he's going to get into ChrisL's pants.

 

[Judicial review]

I think online is a decent place to meet someone. I think for the most part people express their feelings and opinions more genuinely online than irl. I find people fake in real life always fronting or kissing up especially in the workplace it's utterly repulsive and despicable. But with online dating it begins on a one on one level immediately. And neither party can see how they are among friends, crowds

Meh, that happens often at forums like this one too. I'm sure a lot of people are phonies online and in RL too. Lol.

Or are phony's online 100% of the time, but are as real and honest as one can be in real life that attracts women to me. I'll tell you what my last Girlfriend said to me. She said, "you are too good to be true." I know I'm a very nice guy who is very put together, but I felt bad, because I simply wanted her to know THAT was ME. She'd get that 100% of the time and it required zero effort on my part. She was a good woman too. I have no regrets dating her, but I couldn't make her a secure person. I could make her appreciate herself enough to better her life for her. I was fighting a losing battle. That hurts me.

Why would someone who is secure with himself/herself have to put on airs online? What does a person get from doing this? I started posting on political forums in 2008 when the election was happening because I was concerned about my country and I wanted to find out more and all I could about this "Obama" person since, to me, he was relatively an unknown. I've stuck to it because I actually enjoy posting on these boards for some strange reason. Lol. I also like to kid around, flirt and have fun, but I never joined a political forum with the intent on "messing" with people. Why would a person do this?

For me I already know about all the issues and politics, but there's no news worthy stuff to post on, with the media not doing it's job. I've been bored, so I troll. With the elections coming up I can and will change that.

 

[Steinlight]

I have used online dating apps to recruit girls for pornos with these online dating sites. If anyone is interesting in making some quick money by sending me girls through these sites, shoot me a PM or go directly to the site, Jewish Goldstein Company.

 

[Steinlight]

The whole sex dating site thing is like the 'carousel' thing in "Logan's Run." In the movie, you're physically transported from home to home, show off your goods a bit, and if the person wants to have sex with you they pick you.

In our case, being grounded by the laws of physics (heh) we put our willingness out there online. But the aim and result is the same.

I'm now of the opinion that if you wanna meet Mr. or Ms. Right, referrals from friends, and meeting up doing an activity you both enjoy is still best. Online sites are faster, but only efficient at finding people not interested in taking their time to get to know someone. Their profiles are the 'getting to know someone.' By the time they hug hello (or whatever) they're wanting the sex.

Why don't you take a seat?

 

[Moonglow]

I married someone I met on line also. But it was on a gaming site. Been married for 12 years.

I often wonder if those sites that try to match up interests etc. really work... or if people get "fooled" a lot....

I have yet to find a bi-sexual, a nympho, a cross-dresser or a MILF...

 

[ChrisL]

I married someone I met on line also. But it was on a gaming site. Been married for 12 years.

I often wonder if those sites that try to match up interests etc. really work... or if people get "fooled" a lot....

I have yet to find a bi-sexual, a nympho, a cross-dresser or a MILF...

That's because you're a smelly fat loser and even they wouldn't have you.

 

[Moonglow]

I think online is a decent place to meet someone. I think for the most part people express their feelings and opinions more genuinely online than irl. I find people fake in real life always fronting or kissing up especially in the workplace it's utterly repulsive and despicable. But with online dating it begins on a one on one level immediately. And neither party can see how they are among friends, crowds

Meh, that happens often at forums like this one too. I'm sure a lot of people are phonies online and in RL too. Lol.

Or are phony's online 100% of the time, but are as real and honest as one can be in real life that attracts women to me. I'll tell you what my last Girlfriend said to me. She said, "you are too good to be true." I know I'm a very nice guy who is very put together, but I felt bad, because I simply wanted her to know THAT was ME. She'd get that 100% of the time and it required zero effort on my part. She was a good woman too. I have no regrets dating her, but I couldn't make her a secure person. I could make her appreciate herself enough to better her life for her. I was fighting a losing battle. That hurts me.

Why would someone who is secure with himself/herself have to put on airs online? What does a person get from doing this? I started posting on political forums in 2008 when the election was happening because I was concerned about my country and I wanted to find out more and all I could about this "Obama" person since, to me, he was relatively an unknown. I've stuck to it because I actually enjoy posting on these boards for some strange reason. Lol. I also like to kid around, flirt and have fun, but I never joined a political forum with the intent on "messing" with people. Why would a person do this?

For me I already know about all the issues and politics, but there's no news worthy stuff to post on, with the media not doing it's job. I've been bored, so I troll. With the elections coming up I can and will change that.

Just like your other, other projects and professional vehicles you have wrecked?

 

[Moonglow]

I married someone I met on line also. But it was on a gaming site. Been married for 12 years.

I often wonder if those sites that try to match up interests etc. really work... or if people get "fooled" a lot....

I have yet to find a bi-sexual, a nympho, a cross-dresser or a MILF...

That's because you're a smelly fat loser and even they wouldn't have you.

Well goodness, listen to the prostitute beg for customers...

 

[ChrisL]

I married someone I met on line also. But it was on a gaming site. Been married for 12 years.

I often wonder if those sites that try to match up interests etc. really work... or if people get "fooled" a lot....

I have yet to find a bi-sexual, a nympho, a cross-dresser or a MILF...

That's because you're a smelly fat loser and even they wouldn't have you.

Well goodness, listen to the prostitute beg for customers...

Who you? I know, you are quite pathetic fat old man, aren't you?