As I have said many times, I was a devout Christian most of my life. Trying to say I don't know what I'm talking about is absurd. I would wager I know the Bible and the tenets of Christianity at least as well as you. Accepting Jesus as the only savior is the main focus of Christianity. Witout that, there is no Christianity.
It's not that you don't know what you are talking about. You are clearly talking about the minority view of Christianity.
Let's talk about the wider view. Jesus taught:
- God as our Father
- God as love
- The forgiveness of sins
- Jesus as Redeemer of the entire world
- The Way of salvation open to all--discerning the will of God and following it
- Loving as he loved
It is therefore puzzling that after Jesus bestowed redemption on the entire world and opened the way of salvation to everyone of all time, a few Christian sects decided they needed to contract and diminish Jesus message and limit it to a few.
Think about it. Weren't these limitations of God's love, forgiveness, redemption, and salvation so claustrophobic, you felt the need to break free? On the other hand, the magnitude of God's love, forgiveness, redemption, and salvation seems to overwhelm you as well.
If you know the Bible as you claim, then you know that Jesus taught the way of salvation did not rely on following rules, Temple sacrifices, or distancing oneself from the poor, from sinners, and those in the the lower social strata. Jesus' way of salvation was simply to discern the will of God and to follow it.
Jesus gave the instruction to proclaim the Good News. The Good News was not about limiting God or His love, His forgiveness, or His Way of Salvation. All of this is unlimited, open to all who want to take part in the Redemption of the whole world.
So while your sect of Christianity seems to have been about limiting God to a certain few, that is simply not true of all denominations or of all faiths.