My thoughts on transgenderism, gender fluidity. See what you think.

[Rumpole]

It is illegal in my state and that was a possible motive for the transgender shooter at the Nashville school.

A tragedy, indeed.

 

[yidnar]

For the TLDR crowd, not asking you to read the entire thing, just take a point, or two, if that's all you want. No problem.

I realize modern psychology has shifted its view to accept that if someone believes one is of the opposite gender, then that person is that gender, and now the term 'gender' and 'sex', are not necessarily the same thing. However, I disagree, and for millenia this was not the case. In terms of history, this is a recent development. Now, many recent developments are now fact. but psychology is a soft science, it's not like physics when results are either there, or they are not, and physicists an reproduce the results you claim on a published paper. There is considerable more subjectivity in psychology, than the hard sciences.

Psychology is sometimes considered a soft science, but this can be a matter of debate and interpretation.

The term "soft science" is often used to refer to fields of study that rely heavily on subjective interpretation and do not typically involve precise quantitative measurement. Fields like sociology, anthropology, and psychology are sometimes considered soft sciences because they rely on observations, case studies, and interviews to gather data and often deal with complex, difficult-to-measure variables such as emotions, beliefs, and attitudes.

However, it's important to note that psychology is a broad field that encompasses many different subfields, some of which involve more precise, quantitative measurements. For example, cognitive psychology and neuropsychology use neuroimaging techniques to measure brain activity, and experimental psychology uses carefully controlled experiments to test hypotheses and measure outcomes.

In addition, psychology has made significant contributions to other fields, such as medicine, education, and business, which suggests that it is a rigorous and valuable scientific discipline.

Overall, while some aspects of psychology may involve subjective interpretation, the field as a whole is a complex and multifaceted science that incorporates both qualitative and quantitative methods. So, my point is, psychology is a kind of hybrid science, part subjective, part objective. It is on the subject of gender fluidity, in my personal opinion, there is considerable subjectivity going on. I personally don't like the word 'woke' it's a weasel word, so it won't be used here.

I am critical with my liberal brethren in some key respects on this subject, and in agreement on others.

Now then, on 'pronouns' let's get that out of the way, first.

If I use a pronoun referring to an effeminate male, and I happen to be aware that that person transfemale who dresses as a female, wears make up, etc, I would assume that that persons prefers the feminine pronoun and I have no issue obliging them on that point. I do it because it's not that big of a deal with me, and I don't want to fight, if I can avoid it. But, that I would do that is out of courtesy, not obligation.

However, if that same effeminate male approached me as asked me my opinion as to that person's sex, I would answer as follows:

I am one who believes gender and sex are the same thing, as this was the norm for millenia and I see no reason to believe otherwise. Does that answer your question? My point is, if you don't want an honest answer to the question, don't ask it. Some might agree with your point of view, some might not, be prepared for it and respect their sensitivities, and we will respect yours, where we can. On that point, my position is as follows:

1. I do understand there is a real phenomenon called 'transgender/gender fluidity' and it shouldn't be trivialized or ridiculed or shamed.

2. On the matter of children, It is my view that adults, given that children have vivid imaginations, tend to be influenced by adults and what is on television, subject to peer pressure, get ideas with which they easily change their mind, or lose interest, as time passes, that they often pursue fads and things trendy, that we, as adults, should try and convince a child, who might be gender confused, given that it might be merely an outside influence, a temporal thing, we should try first to have the child acknowledge their biological sex is their true sex, and if they (boys) exhibit effeminate characteristics, explain to the child that it is perfectly okay for a boy to be effeminate, perfectly okay for a girl to be masculine (as in a 'tomboy'), that these conditions often fade as they grow up, and that I believe, sincerely, it is actually better for one's mental and spiritual health to be honest and acknowledge what one truly is, and that, for children, over time, their truer selves emerge from the fog of life's barrage of confusing influences.

After the age of 18, if they still are determined to be transgender, that is their right and we should respect it. If I were to counsel a young man, or young woman, I would still act in accordance to the above, given the chance they are still young, and still might change. I tell a young man or woman, it's perfectly okay to be gay, and watch out for the tendency some gay boys and girls to envy being straight, the solution of which would be to change one sex. In my view, envy would be the wrong reason to change one's sex. But doing that, is a radical change for one's biology, and can lead to serious health consequences. Proceed with the utmost caution.

But, for children, I adamantly don't believe in sex change surgery, puberty blockers, for children, no matter how apparently 'urgent a child may make it seem . As I understand it, there is no surgery going on? (is there? I hope not), but some kids are given puberty blockers, and I think this is wrong (but I'm not an expert, or a Doctor, so it comes with a caveat).

Children are children, they have powerful and fanciful imaginations (I remember vividly my own childhood--I remember in the 6th grade, I envied left handed kids. I thought being left-handed was 'cool', and since I was practically ambidextrous, it was easy for me to pretend being left handed. After awhile, the fad faded and I returned to being my normal self, predominantly right handed) and much is urgent in the life of a child. To make such an assumption for a child, leading to life altering drugs and surgery, in my view, is a mistake, and could be a tragic one, if harm comes to the child, that the child changes his/her mind, later on.

3. I believe transgenders, gays, lesbians, etc., should be treated with respect and they should not be discriminated against and have all the rights that all citizens possess and that anti discrimination laws pertain to them, as they do to race, creed, etc.

4. I am more than happy to treat a transgender with their preferred pronouns, and treat them as their gender to which they identify. However, there are limits, and those are commented on, herein.

5. I simply do not accept the concept of 'non binary'. To me, these persons are androgenous/A-sexual. Unless you are born in with a rare case of being intersex, you are either or female. This idea of not indicating sex on birth certificates is insane. This was the conventional wisdom for such persons, when I grew up and over decades. I will use he or she or him or her as they prefer, but NOT 'they'. No one has the right to change what centuries have decided meanings of words mean.True, meanings of words evolve, but it happens always organically, NEVER by 'decree'. However, if anyone obliges on that point, it is out of courtesy, not obligation. I choose not to, on the subject of A-sexual persons. Why? Because 'they/their/them' normally means plural. I understand that 'they' has been used, though rarely, when describing singular when the sex of the person being spoken of is not known, that is the only grammatical exception, i.e, 'Someone-they left their jacket on the park bench').

However, that being said.

1. I believe that heterosexuals have the right to date only other heterosexuals. If they date transgender, that is their willful choice, but for a heterosexual who claims he or is only willing to date, marry, fall in love with, only other heterosexuals that this does NOT constitute discrimination against transgendered persons. One cannot help who one is attracted to. I warn transfemales who might be considering surgery but only in order that they perceive they might be able to attract straight males. I say, hold on! While there might be some straight males who see you as a woman, myself, being a straight male, I must say, no, they will probably see you as a gay man, and you will have a tough time finding a straight man. In fact, transfemales would be much better off not getting surgery, and I strongly suspect there are far more gay men (for some I've talked to about it, anyway) that prefer well endowed transfemales, than there will be straight males who are so liberated they will accept you as they would any woman, and I advise them strongly not to go through it it. It would be an irreversible decision and I don't see how it could improve one's libido, it seems logical that it would kill it, but I just don't know. That's my position, anyway. If there is research on this, then point me to it.

2. I believe that heterosexuals (or anyone, for that matter) have the right to use whatever pronouns they prefer with regard to transexuals, non binary persons, and any heterosexual who uses a transgendered or non binary person's prefered pronoun is an act of courtesy but such cannot be forced or legislated.

3. Sports, this is a problem. I understand that women are complaining, and they have a valid point. I'm not a sports enthusiast so I will let the professionals duke it out on this subject. I'm with the ladies, though, that's my leaning, unless someone can convince me of otherwise.

4. Restrooms. No one with a penis should be allowed to use a woman's facility, and vice versa. End of argument. Post op, I haven't figured that one out. Help me out.

I invite challenges, comments, discussions, affirmations, etc., as long as it is civil. If it is otherwise, such comments will be ignored.

I'm not asking anyone to read this post in it's entirety, feel free to discuss portions, those which you care to address, or add to the discussion.

dont push trans ideology onto underage children, dont let biological males compete in womens sports or use looker rooms and bathrooms with REAL women, and leftist is a noun that would correctly identify most adult tans people .. you dont have to write a novel to make a point or ask a question .

 

[Rumpole]

dont push trans ideology onto underage children , dont let biological males compete in womens sports ,and leftist is a noun that would correctly identify most adult tans people .. you dont have to write a novel to make a point or ask a question .

You don't have to. I, however, believe there is more to it than simplistic approaches to a complex, highly nuanced, multi-faceted, politically charged subject as the one under discussion, an approach which is wholly inadequate to embrace, capture, grasp, understand, the breadth and depth of, and empathize with, the subject.

Simplistic minds be damned.

Capiche, yidnar? Say, you are not moon-related to the Sons of Gwydion, by any chance?

 

[yidnar]

You don't have to. I, however, believe there is more to it than simplistic approaches to a complex, highly nuanced, multi-faceted, politically charged subject as the one under discussion, an approach which is wholly inadequate to embrace, capture, grasp, understand, the breadth and depth of, and empathize with, the subject.

Simplistic minds be damned.

Capiche, yidnar? Say, you are not moon-related to the Sons of Gwydion, by any chance?

some things dont require complicated explanations .. keep it simple like Gotrek.

 

[BackAgain]

Though not addressed to me, you've called me as bad.

Ok. Whatever that means.

Say, did anyone abuse you as a child? Not that I want to know, or should you ever admit it on an internet forum, and really I don't know why you are so toxic, but I'd be lookin' for a chill pill, if I were you, there's a lotta bitterness in your soul.

You remain an asshole and a hypocrite. But you lack any hint of credibility.

Of what poisoned tree were you it's born fruit? I wonder?

You might want to contemplate the “no family” rule. Not that I really care if you eat a little ban. But maybe you do.

In any case, you clearly lack manhood. So gfy.

 

[BackAgain]

Imply? Implication is the eye of the beholder and you are blind.

Actually, moron, an implication is made by the speaker (or the writer). Your dishonesty just prevents you from admitting it.

You are a hypocrite. That's why you don't see it.

You are just a liar little man. That’s why you lie.

Put me on ignore unless you have a valid response to my points made.

My replies are valid. Your accusation is invalid. Thus, I’m happy to say to you:

Fuck yourself regardless of what I do. You may, however, feel free to put me on ignore. I understand that you’re a total pussy. So it’s ok. I don’t mind at all, ensign.

 

[Rumpole]

some things dont require complicated explanations .. keep it simple like Gotrek.

Well, yidnar, it's like this: When you view life through a 72 year, well aged lens, one becomes poignantly cognizant that living life by way of pithy aphorisms is to miss out on life's smorgasbord of ideas, on life's cornucopia of concepts, on life's robustness. And so, on such a narrow diet as you prescribe, becoming mentally anemic and/or spiritually malnourished, well, it just is inevitable.

Detailed need not be complex, though if one lacks the capacity for more than what aphorisms can yield, you're are commenting in the wrong subject and thread.

So, are you saying, yindar, one should just blurt out: "dont push trans ideology onto underage children , dont let biological males compete in womens sports ,and leftist is a noun that would correctly identify most adult tans people" and that's it, we should all just quit and move on to another topic?

That, yidnar, won't cut it. Not any in quest for wisdom, knowledge, enlightenment, mental and spiritual enrichment.

Life is a spectrum of millions of colors, rainbows within rainbows, and you are settling for one of the primary colors?

Sorry, yidnar, that simply won't do. Maybe for you, but not for moi.

 

[yidnar]

Well, yidnar, it's like this: When you view life through a 72 year, well aged lens, one becomes poignantly cognizant that living life by way of pithy aphorisms is to miss out on life's smorgasbord of ideas, on life's cornucopia of concepts, on life's robustness. And so, on such a narrow diet as you prescribe, becoming mentally anemic and/or spiritually malnourished, well, it just is inevitable.

Detailed need not be complex, though if one lacks the capacity for more than what aphorisms can yield, you're are commenting in the wrong subject and thread.

So, are you saying, yindar, one should just blurt out: "dont push trans ideology onto underage children , dont let biological males compete in womens sports ,and leftist is a noun that would correctly identify most adult tans people" and that's it, we should all just quit and move on to another topic?

That, yidnar, won't cut it. Not any in quest for wisdom, knowledge, enlightenment, mental and spiritual enrichment.

Life is a spectrum of millions of colors, rainbows within rainbows, and you are settling for one of the primary colors?

Sorry, yidnar, that simply won't do. Maybe for you, but not for moi.

ok.

 

[Rumpole]

Ok. Whatever that means.

You remain an asshole and a hypocrite. But you lack any hint of credibility.

You might want to contemplate the “no family” rule. Not that I really care if you eat a little ban. But maybe you do.

In any case, you clearly lack manhood. So gfy.

You're the one who cops out, so, no lectures on 'manhood' puhleeze. If you believe you are the master copulator, please do it somewhere else.

The best you can do are ever-so-tired, prosaic, insults, Any low life can call someone an 'asshole' or 'hypocrite'. Such a lack of imagination! But, I digress, no doubt after a diligent search, you found the word 'supercilious'. Now if you are going to go all sesquipedalian on me, you're looking like a kid in daddy's suit, it doesn't fit you very well.

It has been my experience in life, that when encountering folks whose medium is mud, every slung slop of sewage that evacuates from their keyboard, is just a mirror to a sad sack of a soul, and especially those who assail manhood--oh yeah, they often have personal issues in that department. Just sayin'.

So, BackAgain, from what putrid pool does such pustulence ooze out from?

Just wondering.

 

[Rumpole]

I don't care what pronouns a person wants me to call them. I'll respect their wishes.

Same.

However, if someone is fired for not using the right pronouns, I have a big problem with that.

Agreed.

Also, I absolutely oppose any kind of medical alterations to a minor. A minor can't get a tattoo, for crying out loud. How in the FUCK does it make sense they should be able to have their dicked lopped off?

Doesn't make sense at all. However, I have my fears on the subject, like you, but I haven't seen any evidence of kids being mutilated, have you?

If you have sex with a minor, you go to prison because under the law a minor cannot give informed consent.

Correct. Stat rape is rape.

Even if the minor wanted to have sex, you go to prison. If the parents gave permission for their minor child to have sex with an adult, the parents go to prison.

Unfortunately, well, the last time I checked (a couple of years ago), quite a number of states allow an adult to marry a child below the age of consent, at 16-17 with parental consent or court approval. What then? Marriage results in sex. Are they, too, rapists? You can't prosecute parents with those laws on the books. I'm asking because I do not know the answer.

So no fucking way should the law permit a minor to consent to any genderbending treatment, with or without their parents' consent.

I'm inclined to agree, but I wouldn't turn away professional and scientific data on this, not that it would change my mind, but I don't want to close my mind, either. Anyway, I say wait until they are adults, then they can do whatever they want.

 

[Rumpole]

I kinda believe the trans friendly are convinced God makes a mistake when He creates Man and Woman. God says he created two genders but the super brains here think he's wrong.

There are only two genders and the anomaly of intersex. 'Trans' anything is a cultural thing, has nothing to do with biology. I agree with many on the right that 'gender and sex' are one and the same i don't buy the 'gender fluidity' argument. But that doesn't mean I won't treat a trans person with respect or approve of discrimination. A trans person is a trans person, and in our society, it's a thing. It's like religion, I respect your religion, I won't try and shame it, or you for it, or anyone, and treat transgenderism the same way. Though I'm pantheist, one doesn't have to believe in God, or a god, to accept these ideas.

 

[Rumpole]

II read your post.
You clearly identify yourself as a sadist.

Where do I clearly identify myself as a sadist? Please provide the quote where I do this.

You reserve the right to be cruel o people who've done you no harm just because you can.

Until you can answer the above question, your point is moot.

"sa·dism
noun
the tendency to derive pleasure, especially sexual gratification, from inflicting pain, suffering, or humiliation on others."

If you don't like who you are the better solution is to change rather than deny.

Vacuous drivel. Move along.

 

[BackAgain]

You're the one who cops out,

No. You’re the one who lies.

so, no lectures on 'manhood' puhleeze

If you believe you are the master copulator, please do it somewhere else.

Listen, girl.

I don’t take orders from you.

Oh and I realize you’re a pathetic masturbator, but really come up with something clever.

 

[scruffy]

I can see some logic there. Especially since that's a good description for a certain generation. Yet, changing your sex usually isn't a drunk, spur of the moment thing. What has happened is that... magats can't diss blacks no mo. Who can we fucking annihilate now?

More leftard victimology. ^^^

It gets old.

Find a new act.

 

[scruffy]

'Trans' anything is a cultural thing, has nothing to do with biology.

False.

Science has already proven you wrong.

I agree with many on the right that 'gender and sex' are one and the same i don't buy the 'gender fluidity' argument. But that doesn't mean I won't treat a trans person with respect or approve of discrimination.

Well ain't you just grand.

A trans person is a trans person, and in our society, it's a thing. It's like religion, I respect your religion, I won't try and shame it, or you for it, or anyone, and treat transgenderism the same way. Though I'm pantheist, one doesn't have to believe in God, or a god, to accept these ideas.

Respect is a two way street.

I give as good as I get.

When someone tries to groom my child, I give good. Real good.

 

[Rumpole]

No. You’re the one who lies.


Listen, girl.

I don’t take orders from you.

Oh and I realize you’re a pathetic masturbator, but really come up with something clever.

You might want to join the nattering nabobs of negativism fan club. You'd fit right in, the ghost of Spiro Agnew is calling you!

 

[Rumpole]

False.

Science has already proven you wrong.

Show me the science that proves transgenderism is rooted in biology? You just told me 'science proved me wrong' and that was my point.

Well ain't you just grand.

Always.

 

[BackAgain]

You might want to join the nattering nabobs of negativism fan club. You'd fit right in, the ghost of Spiro Agnew is calling you!

Brevity is the soul of wit. You almost made it.

 

[scruffy]

Show me the science.

Already did. Search my posts for "vmPFC"

This is a YOUNG science, we don't yet know what a male or female brain actually looks like.

But the developmental evidence is already crystal clear.

Inter-Network Brain Functional Connectivity in Adolescents Assigned Female at Birth Who Experience Gender Dysphoria

Gender dysphoria (GD) is characterized by distress due to an incongruence between experienced gender and sex assigned at birth. Brain functional connectivity in adolescents who experience GD may be associated with experienced gender (vs. assigned sex) and/or brain networks implicated in own-body...

www.frontiersin.org

Always.

 

[Jessica-stormlover]

We're Americans that should be treated like anyone else in our society and treated like we're human beings. We shouldn't have any less then anyone else.