My loneliness is my fault.

[SweetSue92]

1) I had a long standing Reddit account, which I deleted in a fit of anger. It had thousands of posts between 2015 and 2022. I was not banned -- believe it or not.

2) My views on gender issues are offensive to most women and most men are afraid to think about these issues. Years ago I though I could influence most people, but that was a mistake. By talking on general forums I lost an opportunity to talk to and make friends with like-minded people.

3) I am trying to return to Russian Social Media, but now registering is impossible. Given America's actions toward Russia, it is likely that a digital Iron Curtain may soon appear.

2)

Not offensive, just not completely as right as you think you are. But you won't see it.

 

[Moonglow]

I have to deal with society daily you are not missing out on anything.

 

[The Duke]

Man! I'm alone and I like it like that. Nobody wakes up and looks over at me and sets out to ruin my day in the morning anymore.

I mean, women are great! But they always do that sometimes, grr!

Oh! That reminds me, I better get my laundry going. The last ex was better at that than me and she did it real good, but I can do it myself.

I'm willing to compromise on some things, just not as much as where things were going with her. Naw, I gotta be me.

 

[Man of Ethics]

Not offensive, just not completely as right as you think you are. But you won't see it.

To a degree I am right. Gender-based oppression does happen in USA 2023. Two of the worst examples are

1) Male victims of Domestic Violence are more likely to be arrested then helped.

2) Men accused of Sexual Misconduct are presumed guilty. They loose careers and university enrollment without anything resembling fair investigation.

There are many other issues, but those above are particularly severe. Thousands of particular examples can be found by a quick Google search.

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Unfortunately most people are not interested in these issues. Most of those who benefit from discrimination also support that discrimination. Most men are afraid to look into these issues because they are afraid of being defamed and cancelled.

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Even though I was bringing up those issues for over a decade, I have not changed anyone's mind. I have not found any friends and I have found many people who dislike me. Perhaps I should have talked more to like-minded people.

 

[Man of Ethics]

I mean, women are great! But they always do that sometimes, grr!

Of course most of women are not abusive. But a man who is abused is in a particularly bad situation since the Laws are on his abuser's side.

 

[whitehall]

Loneliness is a cloak you wear. A deep shade of blue is always there". "The Sun ain't gonna shine any more".....60's song.

 

[Quasar44]

Of course most of women are not abusive. But a man who is abused is in a particularly bad situation since the Laws are on his abuser's side.

Have you thought about getting on more meds ??

 

[sparky]

~S~

 

[Leo123]

1) I had a long standing Reddit account, which I deleted in a fit of anger. It had thousands of posts between 2015 and 2022. I was not banned -- believe it or not.

2) My views on gender issues are offensive to most women and most men are afraid to think about these issues. Years ago I though I could influence most people, but that was a mistake. By talking on general forums I lost an opportunity to talk to and make friends with like-minded people.

3) I am trying to return to Russian Social Media, but now registering is impossible. Given America's actions toward Russia, it is likely that a digital Iron Curtain may soon appear.

Yes, being alone is different than being lonely but, IMO, both are choices.

 

[Man of Ethics]

Have you thought about getting on more meds ??

Effexor 75 mg -- I guess that is not that much.

 

[Man of Ethics]

Yes, being alone is different than being lonely but, IMO, both are choices.

Fortunately, Zoom and other virtual conferencing places make life less lonely. Forums help as well but not as much.

 

[Quasar44]

Effexor 75 mg -- I guess that is not that much.

No !!
almost zero dose

Did you know autism is skyrocketing due to all these vaccines??

 

[sparky]

Fortunately, Zoom and other virtual conferencing places make life less lonely. Forums help as well but not as much.

Point taken Mr MOE
you're never really alone on this soul suckin' device
thing is, you don't get to choose yer company......

~S~

 

[sparky]

Did you know autism is skyrocketing due to all these vaccines??

yes

~S~

 

[Leo123]

Effexor 75 mg -- I guess that is not that much.

SNRI.....One of many available today. Suppresses the re-uptake of serotonin and norepinephrine. Don't 'cold turkey' on it.

 

[Quasar44]

SNRI.....One of many available today. Suppresses the re-uptake of serotonin and norepinephrine. Don't 'cold turkey' on it.

I am on max dose of viibryd and buspar

 

[sparky]

I am on max dose of viibryd and buspar

Look 'em up 44

~S~

 

[Leo123]

I am on max dose of viibryd and buspar

buspar works to balance dopamine and serotonin. Not sure of the method though.

 

[Quasar44]

buspar works to balance dopamine and serotonin. Not sure of the method though.

WOW I did not know that about Buspar?? I did not know it affects dompamine.

 

[Man of Ethics]

Point taken Mr MOE
you're never really alone on this soul suckin' device
thing is, you don't get to choose yer company......

Zoom and Jitsi Meet are much much much better then talking by text. But that is a new technology and takes time to adopt.