One can try to discount the severity of the fact that the man made the remarks he did in that video. On can call it "locker room" talk. Well, that's a non-starter as far as I'm concerned. Sure, teenage boys may make remarks of that nature in the locker room. Why, among other reasons, might they do so? Well, because they've been taught (tacitly if no other way) that it's an appropriate, or at least acceptable to think of women and their actions toward them that way. But then, one hopes, those boys grow up and become gentlemen and they realise their thinking needs a "course correction" and they alter their attitudes. Trump is not a teenager nor was he in 2005.
Have I heard similar out of line remarks in locker rooms and made by other adult males? Yes. That I have, and that those men have those attitudes does not make having them be right. That they have those beliefs does not exculpate them or others from their moral depravity toward women. It merely means that Trump isn't the only debauched man one might find. That is not a good thing.
That some men have those attitudes is one thing, but how they make amends for having them is what matters most. The thing is that Trump's deeds and attitudes toward women aren't things for which one "flips a switch" to alter; therefore a mere apology isn't enough, no matter how contrite or contrived. The attitudes he has about how he may interact with women, his attitudes about the liberties he can with women unbidden take, have been his for 70 years. They are not going anywhere just because a video illustrating their existence surfaced and he was shamed into offering a half-assed bunch of words that he wants us to construe as an apology.
One must "own one's sh*t" and demonstrate proportionately that one has ceased to have the same failing(s). It's not pleasant to do things, say things and believe things that are repugnant and reprehensible, but folks do. Nobody likes their "dirty laundry" aired for all to see; however, if one knew their "laundry was dirty," it was incumbent upon them right then and there to clean it up. Waiting until everyone else found out about it is about the latest point at which one can begin the clean up process. Make no mistake, though. Cleaning up 70 years, or 50 years of "dirty laundry" doesn't happen in a matter of minutes or even months. There just is no quick fix for that sort of thing.
So, yes, you can be a hypocrite. You can make light of Trump's remarks as those befitting teenagers in locker rooms. You can even try to persuade others to agree with you. You can do that and more, but that you do those things at all causes you to lose all credibility on all matters whereof you write or speak about morality. You see, "telling it like it is" is something one must do when "what it is" and "how it is" benefits one, but even more importantly than doing so when on is "in the right," one must do so with utmost integrity when one is in the wrong.