Those lunatic folks that stalk military funerals to spread their gay hate message? Us normal Christians are furious with them. We are careful in sermons to stay away from political commentary, unless the subject is brought to us by government intervention. We understand there is a line.
So, in other words, you don't speak out against the actions of Westboro. But you expect other religionists to speak out against the maniacs among their ranks.
Even though the WB is a small group, the point is valid - no other religion is called upon to not only denounce, but march in opposition to the fanatics. And even when it's denounced as not-of-the-religion, that isn't enough. It's when different standards are applied that charges of "anti-whatever" gain credibility.